The race thing doesnt bother me a ton, as most of it doesnt matter to the story. It's not like it's a world of only white people. The borderlanders are all asian. Tear would be African or Indian, Illain had olive skin and dark hair. The Sea People are dark skinned/black, many of the Seanchan are black. So the races are in the books. It's not like the writers have to invent other races for the books.
That wokeness seems misplaced more than wrong. Because sure at first they are just in "white areas", so they didnt want the vast majority of the first couple seasons reflecting that. But the flip side is that later when they are elsewhere their forced diversity is going to make places less culturally true/fitting.
The Aes Sedai also definitely had "pillow friends" which certainly implies something without saying it. Not sure about the particular characters they chose for it, but again it wasnt invented by the writers, just misplaced.
Those things didnt bother my "purity test" much as long as they didnt change the story in a negative.