Tiffany's Thread (updates and prayers, and a place where she can smack Joe in public when he needs it :)

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vollygirl said:
It is so hard. So hard. And this seems so unfair. I know God's plan is perfect, and I know Tiffany knows where to go for strength, but this is so hard.
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Yeah, things have been rough on her already, now this. Especially her parents, when we went down there yesterday you could feel the worry and fear if that makes sense. She lost her grandma to cancer, but this is the closest it's ever hit for us. Hurts my heart, can't imagine what they, or Tiffany are feeling.
 
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joevol33 said:
Yeah, things have been rough on her already, now this. Especially her parents, when we went down there yesterday you could feel the worry and fear if that makes sense. She lost her grandma to cancer, but this is the closest it's ever hit for us. Hurts my heart, can't imagine what they, or Tiffany are feeling.
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I've said it here before. Cancer is a massive amount of suck.
 
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joevol33 said:
I agree, and told her that this morning. Her sister showed up, so I left her there, and she's bringing her home. She walked out just wanting to cry on me when I was leaving. From the report on her patient portal it's pretty bad. She's had a bad cough for a while, but wouldn't go to the Dr, because she was scared it'd be cancer, her mom died from lung cancer. Which is crazy, you'd think she'd want to stay on top of it. She only went last night because of her BP being so high, and heart rate. Patient portal is good, but also bad. Tiffany was distraught this morning when she woke me up after reading it. Then then sitting there reading it, and googling what it all meant. Just a tough thing, but hopefully they can do something.
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Prayers for Tiffany, her Mother and you and the Girls 🙏
 
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joevol33 said:
She's getting ready for her sister to come get her. I worry how she's going to handle today if everything is correct from the hospital. We just had a big long talk about worse case scenario, those aren't easy. She could be in a spot if having to choose to be here waiting on her mom to fight or leave, or going for her surgery. That's gonna be tough if so, I'd hate to be in that position. Of course they talked about it, and told her she better go get fixed. If I was in her mom's position, I wouldn't want my kid to pass up a chance to prolong their life to watch me die. I mean we don't know anything, she may live a long time, we're just talking worse case. It's definitely not comfortable conversation.
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So sorry for all of you Joe. I've lost the last 2 close family members (grandfather and uncle) to cancer and dad has been through lymphoma twice the past 7 years. Praying for the entire family 🙏🏻
 
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Tiffany made it to the fellowship breakfast at church, and now we're at the swim meet. We're going to watch just for a little bit, she's worn out, had to get up early for the breakfast. She did nap between church and here, but gotta get a good one soon. We're going out with middle brat to celebrate her birthday early, cause she's gonna be on a cruise during her actual birthday.
 
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Tiffany has done pretty good this weekend. I think getting out helped with the stress of her mom, and she got to deaccess her port Friday night, gets a break from the IV for a bit. Even with us talking about worse case, she's not gotten upset. Unfortunately we have to, because if something happens to her parents, or mine, it's going to be us having to deal with the hard parts. My sister, nor any of hers I honestly think aren't capable. Tiffany knows that, and she's getting mentally prepared in case we have to.
 
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joevol33 said:
Tiffany has done pretty good this weekend. I think getting out helped with the stress of her mom, and she got to deaccess her port Friday night, gets a break from the IV for a bit. Even with us talking about worse case, she's not gotten upset. Unfortunately we have to, because if something happens to her parents, or mine, it's going to be us having to deal with the hard parts. My sister, nor any of hers I honestly think aren't capable. Tiffany knows that, and she's getting mentally prepared in case we have to.
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It’s hard when you’re the only grownups among the supposedly adult siblings. ☹️
 
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Was going to sleep, but Tiffany is having a rough night, emotionally. They're trying to be positive, but her mom went to her regular Dr today, and he was kinda blunt about her tests so far. She keeps asking if I think her mom has a chance, I'm trying to be hopeful for her, but not give her false hope. Just telling her we can't really know until the biopsy. Poor thing, been crying for a while.
 
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joevol33 said:
Was going to sleep, but Tiffany is having a rough night, emotionally. They're trying to be positive, but her mom went to her regular Dr today, and he was kinda blunt about her tests so far. She keeps asking if I think her mom has a chance, I'm trying to be hopeful for her, but not give her false hope. Just telling her we can't really know until the biopsy. Poor thing, been crying for a while.
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Praying for Tiffany and her Mother to be healed and comforted 🙏
 
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joevol33 said:
Was going to sleep, but Tiffany is having a rough night, emotionally. They're trying to be positive, but her mom went to her regular Dr today, and he was kinda blunt about her tests so far. She keeps asking if I think her mom has a chance, I'm trying to be hopeful for her, but not give her false hope. Just telling her we can't really know until the biopsy. Poor thing, been crying for a while.
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It's so hard. I am so sorry this is happening.
 
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