Tiffany's Thread (updates and prayers, and a place where she can smack Joe in public when he needs it :)

[joevol33]

I just had to get ugly . There's been a shift, that we knew was coming. Without telling Tiffany anything, because she was supposed to stay with him this week, her dad is off to Florida tomorrow. Florida sister is doing exactly what Tiffany thought, and he done told her to find them a house, and he'd pay for it. She'd heard something from her twin, but Florida sister's son stopped by here telling her the details. Tiffany has been upset since she found out he was going, cause she wanted to be with him this week. She thought it was just for a week until the nephew came by. She was upset of course, mostly at her dad for not telling her, and was crying telling him that. Which led to the sister (his mom) being brought up, and the medical records. I was trying to stay out of it, but he got loud with her, so I flipped. I was pretty calm until I said his papa knew how fragile Tiffany was, and could have manned up and told her himself, especially since he told her she could stay with him. Her nephew tried to get bad, telling me I better check myself , if I'm gonna say that. I asked him check what? How I'd hide something like that from the one kid of mine that gave up time with her family to stay, because he couldn't handle being alone? I was almost mad. When I first went in there, I told him to shut up, they were done talking, and told Tiffany to go to our room. I told him they could chase money, but cancer killed her, not the Dr, and none of them are going to be getting anything from her. I did get civilized, and I told him I can understand his papa wanting to get away. I can sincerely relate, but I told him I can't relate to hiding something like that from my daughter. Rationally, I get it. I get everyone is emotional, I get his mom has filled his head with crap, and out of the bunch, he's the best one, so I don't want to kill him . That said, I let him understand that Tiffany is fragile, and if her dad doesn't have it in him to tell her, then he doesn't need to be talking to her about it.

 

[malinoisvol]

I just had to get ugly . There's been a shift, that we knew was coming. Without telling Tiffany anything, because she was supposed to stay with him this week, her dad is off to Florida tomorrow. Florida sister is doing exactly what Tiffany thought, and he done told her to find them a house, and he'd pay for it. She'd heard something from her twin, but Florida sister's son stopped by here telling her the details. Tiffany has been upset since she found out he was going, cause she wanted to be with him this week. She thought it was just for a week until the nephew came by. She was upset of course, mostly at her dad for not telling her, and was crying telling him that. Which led to the sister (his mom) being brought up, and the medical records. I was trying to stay out of it, but he got loud with her, so I flipped. I was pretty calm until I said his papa knew how fragile Tiffany was, and could have manned up and told her himself, especially since he told her she could stay with him. Her nephew tried to get bad, telling me I better check myself , if I'm gonna say that. I asked him check what? How I'd hide something like that from the one kid of mine that gave up time with her family to stay, because he couldn't handle being alone? I was almost mad. When I first went in there, I told him to shut up, they were done talking, and told Tiffany to go to our room. I told him they could chase money, but cancer killed her, not the Dr, and none of them are going to be getting anything from her. I did get civilized, and I told him I can understand his papa wanting to get away. I can sincerely relate, but I told him I can't relate to hiding something like that from my daughter. Rationally, I get it. I get everyone is emotional, I get his mom has filled his head with crap, and out of the bunch, he's the best one, so I don't want to kill him . That said, I let him understand that Tiffany is fragile, and if her dad doesn't have it in him to tell her, then he doesn't need to be talking to her about it.

Getcha some! Man! I feel sorry for Tiffany having to put up with the nonsense.

 

[WestTennesseeFox]

I really am in the mood to whip someone's ass right now.

 

[joevol33]

I really am in the mood to whip someone's ass right now.

This bunch would make you .

 

[joevol33]

Like I said, rationally thinking, I know his mom has him full of crap, even wanting money. But he bout crossed the line getting loud with her. Tiffany is an emotional person, wears her feelings on her sleeve, and she's broken right now. Just lost her mom, and finds out through the grapevine her dad is moving for good. Even though we kinda expected it, it's all she has left of her mom, and it hurts. And even though she understands him not wanting to be there, she doesn't understand him hiding it from her. He's texting her now, guess the nephew told everyone. They all might be back to get me later

 

[82_VOL_83]

Like I said, rationally thinking, I know his mom has him full of crap, even wanting money. But he bout crossed the line getting loud with her. Tiffany is an emotional person, wears her feelings on her sleeve, and she's broken right now. Just lost her mom, and finds out through the grapevine her dad is moving for good. Even though we kinda expected it, it's all she has left of her mom, and it hurts. And even though she understands him not wanting to be there, she doesn't understand him hiding it from her. He's texting her now, guess the nephew told everyone. They all might be back to get me later

Joe, you guys need to start cutting any kind of financial ties you have with her family. That dumbass is going to try to drag this into court and it's going to break them. Make sure Tiff knows ahead of time what is going to happen. I know it's none of my bidness but I can't help but think that this is going to fall right back on the rational one in the family.

 

[joevol33]

Joe, you guys need to start cutting any kind of financial ties you have with her family. That dumbass is going to try to drag this into court and it's going to break them. Make sure Tiff knows ahead of time what is going to happen. I know it's none of my bidness but I can't help but think that this is going to fall right back on the rational one in the family.

I told her that. Her sister will bankrupt her dad, he's done called a realtor here. She'll break him, and he'll learn the hard way unfortunately. I told her let them be, and focus on her health

 

[volwindy]

I told her that. Her sister will bankrupt her dad, he's done called a realtor here. She'll break him, and he'll learn the hard way unfortunately. I told her let them be, and focus on her health

Sad he's put the trust in the wrong person.

 

[hmanvolfan]

I know you don’t need any help with the punk but know I got your back.

 

[joevol33]

Sad he's put the trust in the wrong person.

Exactly

 

[joevol33]

I know you don’t need any help with the punk but know I got your back.

I've been talking to Tiffany, and told her I was trying to not get too mad at him. I was mad, but not losing it mad. I get it, told her this, that his head is filled with crap from his mom. He's emotional right now, lost his Nana, and like I said, probably the best of the bunch. She's the problem, the Florida sister.

 

[KrazyVolFan]

Sympathies for you and your family, I hate you guys are dealing with all this drama. Losing my mom is the hardest thing I've went thru in my life. Seems like a part of you is just gone and nothing fills that hole in your heart. Family can can be a blessing and a curse. Keep yours close and a watchful eye on them. I will be praying for you guys.

 

[hmanvolfan]

I've been talking to Tiffany, and told her I was trying to not get too mad at him. I was mad, but not losing it mad. I get it, told her this, that his head is filled with crap from his mom. He's emotional right now, lost his Nana, and like I said, probably the best of the bunch. She's the problem, the Florida sister.

I get it, I had a cousin trying to horn in on the estate of our grandfather when he passed. I get pissed when people act like vultures when a family member leaves the world.

 

[joevol33]

Sympathies for you and your family, I hate you guys are dealing with all this drama. Losing my mom is the hardest thing I've went thru in my life. Seems like a part of you is just gone and nothing fills that hole in your heart. Family can can be a blessing and a curse. Keep yours close and a watchful eye on them. I will be praying for you guys.

Thank you, and sorry for your hurt

 

[joevol33]

I get it, I had a cousin trying to horn in on the estate of our grandfather when he passed. I get pissed when people act like vultures when a family member leaves the world.

Same happened with my grandma

 

[hmanvolfan]

Same happened with my grandma

 

[vollygirl]

I really am in the mood to whip someone's ass right now.

Let's go.

 

[NorCalVol67]

 

[vollygirl]

I've been talking to Tiffany, and told her I was trying to not get too mad at him. I was mad, but not losing it mad. I get it, told her this, that his head is filled with crap from his mom. He's emotional right now, lost his Nana, and like I said, probably the best of the bunch. She's the problem, the Florida sister.

You are Tiffany's rock, her protector, her defense, her husband. You do what you know you should do (what God put you in place for), and trust she will know you have her back. Everything you do is in her best interest and she knows that, even if she isn't thinking it right now.

 

[joevol33]

You are Tiffany's rock, her protector, her defense, her husband. You do what you know you should do (what God put you in place for), and trust she will know you have her back. Everything you do is in her best interest and she knows that, even if she isn't thinking it right now.

That's what I told her nephew. He said he was trying to explain, and I said I'm explaining to you she just lost her mom, and feels like her dad is leaving her, she's not in a place emotionally to talk about it

 

[vollygirl]

That's what I told her nephew. He said he was trying to explain, and I said I'm explaining to you she just lost her mom, and feels like her dad is leaving her, she's not in a place emotionally to talk about it

How old is this kid? He's chosing his side right now.

 

[joevol33]

How old is this kid? He's chosing his side right now.

31, he's grown. He's also the one (I told this at some point) who said he left me in a bloody mess on my porch about 10 years ago . His mom was cheating on her then husband, and meeting her boyfriend at our house during the day while I was sleeping. Her husband found out, and they were all in my yard screaming and woke me up. I'm not pleasant waking up. I went outside, and I didn't cuss, but went off on everyone. Told them to leave, or I was getting violent with everyone. She left something, and her son came back for it. He was mad cause of things I said to her, and said something to me. I told him the same, and said we'd fight if he wanted (I shouldn't have). He calmed down, and left. Later, her parents called asking if I was okay, cause they'd heard he beat me up . I get he was defending his mom, but they're bad at telling stories.

 

[vollygirl]

31, he's grown. He's also the one (I told this at some point) who said he left me in a bloody mess on my porch about 10 years ago . His mom was cheating on her then husband, and meeting her boyfriend at our house during the day while I was sleeping. Her husband found out, and they were all in my yard screaming and woke me up. I'm not pleasant waking up. I went outside, and I didn't cuss, but went off on everyone. Told them to leave, or I was getting violent with everyone. She left something, and her son came back for it. He was mad cause of things I said to her, and said something to me. I told him the same, and said we'd fight if he wanted (I shouldn't have). He calmed down, and left. Later, her parents called asking if I was okay, cause they'd heard he beat me up . I get he was defending his mom, but they're bad at telling stories.

And he's the good one. That tells you everything. He still hasn't learned.

 

[joevol33]

And he's the good one. That tells you everything. He still hasn't learned.

Exactly

 

[joevol33]

Got her out of the house for a little while. Had to run to the pharmacy, took her by the little store that's a discount place. Just about 5 minutes, but she went in and looked around. Went and washed her car, she even helped vacuum it. She's resting now while I'm prepping dinner.