And Mick, understand from my perspective where I spent A LOT of money, and I mean A LOT of my money and an exorbitant amount of my time to realize that there are far more losers who are losers because of personal choice, than there are decent people who are just down.
After a while the small numbers of victories where you see what your time and money did for those who were able to take the help and make positive strides in their personal lives versus the overwhelming amount of low life pos who were too dumb and too messed up to benefit from the help.
It comes to a point where no matter how great just one success story is, and believe me it is beyond fulfilling to see, but, after a while the low success rates wear on you, and they begin to overshadow and take over. You begin to see that people, for the most part, are solely responsible for their choices, and many of those down trodden and less fortunate are solely responsible for their plight in life because of their decisions day in and day out which no matter how much help is given, won't matter.
That is what is truly sad.