at the start I was fine with the level of support. Not sure where exactly my line was, but it certainly became too much. I was already past my line, but one big example of things gone too far is when our politicians put a border policy on hold until Ukraine got funded.
no intra-American policy should ever, ever, be on the line or wait for any bit of foreign aid. all foreign aid should be at the absolute very bottom of the list of things to do. they should be the items that Congress is constantly like, yeah we will get to it right after our next break, we super duper promise.
unfortunately for your argument you have people actively arguing that we should get more involved, sending troops to fight. there is plenty to debate, you are arguing for the next Afghanistan, just far more expensive, with far far more dead Americans. with just as little to show for it.