Maybe. Just some of the groups and overall ideas you have presented are lol worthy.
People can be gay and never act on it. And any number of reasons you might believe its unnatural or wrong non gay people take those same actions. And for the most part we dont judge them for it. Not sure why being gay gets called out.
Also do you know, on a personal level, anyone that is gay?
If dont dont believe that in cultures were having a son is a status symbol to the point were they already abort daughters or that most if not all Islamic nations would abuse the ability to identify homosexuals to murder them or orthodox religious groups would chose not to have gay children I dont know what to tell you.
And I disagree with the premise that you can just be gay. It's an active choice one makes. And I challenge you to find any verifiable scientific evidence that homosexuality has any predisposition. You can however have a fetish and not act on it.
Yes, I have known, worked with, went to school with various people living a homosexual lifestyle. In fact I dated a young lady most of my senior year of highschool that had homosexual parents (2 moms and 2 dads). I liked the moms and spent a lot of time with them. Lori's parents had a common history, the married right out of highschool, had a couple kids, and at some point in their 30s divorced and decided to be gay. The mom had a very manly(butch) girlfriend and the dad decided years later to be with a very obviously gay dude. I had little to nothing to do with the dad, but her mom and her friends were always kind to me.
The story is typical of the homosexuals I've known.
They dated like normal folks for years and maybe even married before choosing to life as a homosexual. In fact I've never known a homosexual that didn't have normal relationships before deciding to live as a homosexual. A couple females I knew from Lori's mom would bounce back and forth over the years.
And before you gets your panties in a wad normal is not a pejorative term. When 97-98% of the population does it one way and 2-3% of the population deviates from that, one is the norm or normal, the other is a deviation or deviant. Not passing judgment on the decision just dealing with reality.