I am one of those who often debate whether the government actually should have a role in recognizing marriage, gay or straight. To me the act of marriage is largely a religious/spiritual matter. To some it's a symbolic, earthly representation of the Union between God and Man. To others it's just a deep showing of their commitment to one another, with many degrees in between. And honestly that can be what the heart of this issue entails. Why should Government be involved in something that is clearly a spiritual matter? On the flip side, I always realize that if there is no kind of observation, how can anyone mediate in the event of a divorce/breakup, and the subsequent division of common assets? However, I would like to see a way to figure out the whole contract part of it on assets, but yet getting government as far away from this mine field as possible.
To Christians they feel that this is a collective endorsement of the Gay Lifestyle, and feel this has negative impact on society as a whole. On the other hand, there are people out there who feel the same way about driving an SUV (having a negative impact on our society) and thinks that should be banned. Now, the interesting thing to me about the above statements, is the fact they come from the two opposite factions of this country, who both seem to feel they need to interject their morals onto society as whole. I used to identify more with the social conservative side of things, but honestly in the end we can't legislate morality nor should we even try. My only hope as I eye this (as this is the first real truly passed gay marriage bill, versus being rammed through the courts), is how protected are the Religious Entities who refuse to marry them based on their moral code opposing the act? Would they be sued (and win?) for discrimination? I'm not saying they will, I just have thought this is a serious question that needs to be posed as this debate starts picking up steam across the country.