butchna
Sit down and tell me all about it...way over there
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And we're back to the "POV is different". When I think (and I know others do too) "measured" with an unknown it's simply not assigning values there's no possible way to confirm. One can still very much be positive with this mindset. The difference is one doesn't have to get smacked in the face by disappointment by expectations that may never have been warranted in the first place.
Personally I really enjoy being pleasantly surprised and that's much easier when I don't get too far ahead of myself with expectations. :hi:
I'm from a fanbase that has handled disappointment and unmet expectations. Makes you tough. If a kid is less than great, you carry on. Great success with that approach.