jakez4ut
Patience... It's what's for dinner
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i think it's over simplifiying to simply say "you've never been in his shoes or shoes like his so you can't have a contrary opinion". Likewise, it's over simplification, to a certain extent, to just write him off as well due to the one incident.Just wondering, how many of you have ever made friends with a gang member or anyone of that caliber and been his age?? Further more, how many of you have ever been told that if you do or say anything you would get your ass kicked or killed?? What he witnessed was just disgusting and he could have tried to do something about it yes, but have you ever been a scared kid his age hanging out with the wrong crowd?? I don't think most of you have and honestly I don't think that most of you know what is going on in his head or what he has been through. No one here can say that if they were in the same situation that they would have done anything different. The reason I know that is because no one on this board has been in that situation. I can also see that most of the posters in here that would see him and recognize him would rather spit in his face than encourage him to always do the right thing in light of what has happened in his life. So would you condemn the kid to a life of possible non-positive influences or would you want him to have the most positive influences around him possible to remind him that he can do better??
kind of like i've been saying, i think this has more to do with the stigma something like this has. didn't say it was right. but it is something that exists, hence this discussion.
that said, i don't think it's over zealous on my part to look at this situation and not want this kid representing my university. Equally, i don't think that should mean he should NEVER get a shot anywhere else.. perhaps it's simply that one of the consequences of that act is that he won't play for the big school....
i think the exposure of playing at a big school in the SEC might be more than most HC's want to bear, which is why i could see him playing at a smaller D1 school or 1-aa school, that can accomodate him, still surround him with the opportunities and positive influence, but w/out the "noise" created at big schools like TN.
you've already seen what this one thread has done today, and how devisive people are on their opininos....i can certainly understand not wanting that to be a continued part of his career at your school, from a HC's or Adiministration's point of view.
and at some point, you'd have to think that's what this kid would want too.