butchna
Sit down and tell me all about it...way over there
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My wife had breast cancer. Successfully treated and in remission. Cancer free for two years and the breast cancer came back...only it was in her liver and lungs...spread out and inoperable. She was the only promising patient on a trial drug for two years...no trace of cancer for months. Tumors started growing again and they switched her to another chemo drug...she had a seizure in April 2013, they were in her brain. Downhill from there...losing weight,forgetfulness and increasing pain. Second seizure in December 2013 might as well have been a stroke. Couldn't walk or hold any food down and we kept dragging her to chemo and targeted radiation on her brain until her death in Feb 2014...never will forgive myself. Breast cancer to brain...not too broad. Evil crap makes up a lot of distance.
Words cannot express how sorry I am to hear that butchna.
My wife is going for a biopsy at the end of this month on her thyroid because they found traces of "calcification". It may turn out to be nothing but of course we're both very concerned.
I've taken in every moment with my 7 month old and wife. They are everything to me and I refuse to get to the point of taking it for granted. Too many people do.
Sorry to hear that man. You'll be in my mind and heart.
Fight the good fight. :hi:
So sorry to read this news about you. Prayers for you and your family.
Thanks guys, fight everyday. At diagnosis, was given less than a year of survival. Dr said I might make it 12 months. My son was 1 year old at the time of diagnosis, i wasn't ready to leave my son and family, the fight was on. My prayer was that this storm not go to waste, that God still allow me to be a blessing, hopefully an encouragement to others to keep fighting. Anyone going thru this knows you meet others going thru the same thing and God allowed me to be a small part, a small help to others. Many other patients asked me to pray with them before their stem cell transplant (I had one as well-they gave 30% chance of survival thru transplant). Left the hospital with many numbers, emails, etc from nurses, patients, and doctors. They all were such a blessing.
Not to bore you with my story, but guys, if nothing else, the next time you hug your kids, wife, loved one, friend, Hug them for one extra second because you never know. I was 35 years old when I was diagnosed.
Btw, my son turns 6 next month. Don't give up, don't ever give up!
So sorry to hear of your loss Biker, battling cancer myself now. Prayers up for Hamm and all of his family. As you know, cancer affects the victim and the victim's family. It is a battle for all involved.
It may not be, but the fact that it was a knot behind the ear isn't good IMO. Not a doctor, so I can't give an expert opinion in that sense of it, but what i do know is my wife of 23 years had a stiff neck in Aug of 2006 and died of inoperable brain cancer in Oct of 2007. Anything in the head region would be cause for serious concern I would think.
I hope I am absolutely wrong though. Good luck to the young man. I hope he does come back and has a great career.
My wife had breast cancer. Successfully treated and in remission. Cancer free for two years and the breast cancer came back...only it was in her liver and lungs...spread out and inoperable. She was the only promising patient on a trial drug for two years...no trace of cancer for months. Tumors started growing again and they switched her to another chemo drug...she had a seizure in April 2013, they were in her brain. Downhill from there...losing weight,forgetfulness and increasing pain. Second seizure in December 2013 might as well have been a stroke. Couldn't walk or hold any food down and we kept dragging her to chemo and targeted radiation on her brain until her death in Feb 2014...never will forgive myself. Breast cancer to brain...not too broad. Evil crap makes up a lot of distance.
Same exact thing w/my mother a decade ago. Breast cancer came back in her brain. She held up against it pretty well till it blinded her. Really took the wind outta her sails at that point...
Thanks guys, fight everyday. At diagnosis, was given less than a year of survival. Dr said I might make it 12 months. My son was 1 year old at the time of diagnosis, i wasn't ready to leave my son and family, the fight was on. My prayer was that this storm not go to waste, that God still allow me to be a blessing, hopefully an encouragement to others to keep fighting. Anyone going thru this knows you meet others going thru the same thing and God allowed me to be a small part, a small help to others. Many other patients asked me to pray with them before their stem cell transplant (I had one as well-they gave 30% chance of survival thru transplant). Left the hospital with many numbers, emails, etc from nurses, patients, and doctors. They all were such a blessing.
Not to bore you with my story, but guys, if nothing else, the next time you hug your kids, wife, loved one, friend, Hug them for one extra second because you never know. I was 35 years old when I was diagnosed.
Btw, my son turns 6 next month. Don't give up, don't ever give up!
This thread should make us all realize that there are a lot of posters on VN that are dealing with some tragic events in their lives. We bicker a lot on here, but think about that before the next time you rip into someone over an argument or belittle someone. You never know what that other person is going through. Prayers to everyone on here who has been affected by cancer.
Just read he was recently diagnosed with cancer and his career will likely be over. Thoughts go out to him and his family.
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