What's good for the gander is good for the goose. A mans choice begins and ends with sex also. If she so desires he is a wage slave for the next 18 years, completely on her whim. Yet we have "my body, my choice". She spends 9 months pregnant, and not all nine of those months are even inconvenient, but he'll spend 18 years in wage servitude to her and the offspring she had 100% of the say in if it is born or not or put up for adoption or not or just abandoned at some fireball.
I'm predominantly against abortion, but if we are going to keep it legal like it is there needs to be the ability of unwilling fathers to sign away paternal responsibility prior to birth.