Yes, seriously.
I'm going to assume your 2nd "child-related" question was for dramatic effect. Pearl was an employee of the University of Tennessee and as such I expected him to have been offered the proper support, guidance and advice and counsel from his bosses and legal. Starting with providing and discussing the picture in question immediately upon discovery, not presenting him and the other coaches with it prior to entering the hearing. The attorney takes direction from his client, which leads me to the conclusion that it was his client that directed him to withhold evidence until just prior to the hearing. Yet, they told the NCAA that they had received the photo 6 days prior.
No, I shouldn't. That is your point of view, not mine. If I'm not mistaken, Pearl did have the "stones" to man up and requested a follow-up to tell them he did recognize where and when the photo was taken.