I say that to say, DD has won on every level but college. True, she was a "jumper" in AAU ... jumping from team to team to get to the natty's, but in the end, she performed and reached the title. And she was MVP on one of her teams and arguably the mvp on all 3 of them... So, what's different in college ball that she is struggling to get that elusive title... An in your face coach!
I have NO DOUBT whatsoever that if DD was coached, instead of idolized, she would perform much better. You can't let an athlete of that caliber get the better of you as a coach. Sometimes you have to show your charge that you are stronger than they are... I have had that situation before. I once told one of my 3-year players, "I built you, and I can build a better you... I know your strengths and I know your weaknesses. I know how to shut you down!"
All it took was this talk and a little extra attention to another player with her physical stature and prowess and she turned it around.
But to do this two things have to be.
1) You better be able to back up your coach-talk and sit your star and then start creating a new one in front of her
2) You better have a stronger belief in yourself than you have in the player.
I wish I could have taken this summer with Meme just so I could have proven this ...Only then would people understand what can be done with innate talent and innate drive, coupled with coaching experience and know-how. Given a summer with Meme, DD would've been watching HER rear-view mirror.
Summer is still here Holly.
And I am still ready to take MeMe and make a baller out of her.
Your arguments are inconsistent. On page 2 of this thread, you say DD should've been pulled, cussed out, and then put right back in instead of being pulled and benched. And now in this post you say the problem is Holly idolizes her. Pulling someone and benching them is no form of idolization.