For me and only me , I believe in baselines . You have to have a baseline or starting point and keep that base line intact in order to have anything . If we teach our kids that there is a baseline for the sexes ( make and female ) then they will have a good sound footing to work with . I think we are trying as a society to blurr that definition so we don’t hurt peoples feelings that identify as whatever that day of the week . I’m not in anyway putting down what somebody thinks their “gender” is , that’s way too complicated an issue to get into . I do however know that the without altering yourself with surgery or chemicals , the eye test will always be the standard .