Both consumer confidence and consumer spending are driven by household polls. If we prefer consumer spending let's look at the numbers. It appears spending for housing and food is higher which is expected but spending for 'luxury' type items is much lower. So less clothes, gadgets, additional education, etc. spending going on. Looks to me as if that says little extra money laying around the house and it goes straight to necessities. Either one comes to the same conclusion.
Any money should go to necessities first, logical. But I haven't noticed people lacking the money for cable, cell phone, vacation, etc...