I agree with you UT, but here's a question/thought not directly to you just everyone in general.
It seems to me that in our society that it is ok for gay people like Ellen, Rosie O'Donnell, John Amechi and plenty of others to defend gay rights push a gay lifestyle in all of our faces. But when a person speaks against that lifestyle they are accused of being racist or discriminatory or close minded by the people who claim to be open minded. It is argued that the gov't can't or shouldn't legislate what happens in a persons bedroom but hasn't the gay community brought it to the public forum? With gay parades, gay pride day at places like Disney World and tv shows showing that lifestyle hasn't it moved from the bedroom to the outside world?
I will answer this by section.
First, Ellen, Rosie, etc. do not wield extraordinary government/military power. They are free to say what they want. Also, the privately owned media is free to report it and comment on it however they feel appropriate.
Second, most people who speak out against the homosexual lifestyle speak out against allowing them certain priviledges or rights. These priviledges and/or rights that some want to deny them range from government recognized marriages to heaven.
Finally, Disney can do what it wants on its own private property. TV producers are going to continue to put out a product that sells. The show Ellen, which was a sitcom originally marketed to families, went off the air when Ellen came out of the closet. Will & Grace was always marketed to young adults (a generation that is much more open minded on the topic of sexuality.)
The bottom line is this:
You can rule your family how you choose. I do not condone the homosexual lifestyle, however, I know that plenty do not condone my appreciation for fine alcohol and cigars. I am not going to stand by and watch some take their rights away, because one day someone could very well move to take mine away.
Does the government recognize my marriage, between my wife and I? Yes. Do I care that they recognize it? No. I care that the Catholic Church recognizes my marriage. If the government came out tomorrow and said they are not going to recognize marriage anymore, that they will leave it up to private institutions, I would be overjoyed!