She was probably more mature at 20 than I am now at 69. I can be serious if the situation demands, but I try not to take life too seriously.I am going by where a person is mentally at an age, not physically.
Physically, what male doesn’t want to hsve sex with a beautiful 20 year old? If I was single, I probably at 43 would hook up with someone around that age just for carnal reasons.
But to actually be in a relationship I would find quite hard. I wouldn’t honestly value her opinions probably and subconsciously view her as a kid.
Now, maybe your wife was fully matured and brought something to the table well beyond her years normally would. Or maybe you were very immature for 36 and it worked.
Clearly, it worked. And she must be a Saint to have stayed with your perverted ass.just kidding. You seem cool, you dirty dirty old man.
I am just taking in law of averages and it is slightly odd on average.
My wife's mother got cancer, and she had to drop out of college, and take care of the family. She was quite grown up. She worked and paid her way through college until then, and I encouraged her to go back and finish after we started dating. She did. She was also the "valid victorian" of her class. Her head was screwed on pretty tight, and still is.