bam15
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it is pretty obvious that 40 years into it I'm going to be whining about having to pay for the others, who began by being born into a family that did not stay together or that struggled at a level I cannot comprehend, in order to make ends meet.
I am a HUGE fan of personal responsibility. But I am not unrealistic.
First, it is easy for a white guy making a good living, who comes from a nice middle class family, to bemoan the fact that so many others just can't seem to do what I have obviously done. Why can't they make the same personal sacrifices I had to make, such as studying in the dorms on a Friday night?
I am a HUGE fan of personal responsibility. But I am not unrealistic.
First, it is easy for a white guy making a good living, who comes from a nice middle class family, to bemoan the fact that so many others just can't seem to do what I have obviously done. Why can't they make the same personal sacrifices I had to make, such as studying in the dorms on a Friday night?
The problem with slavish adherence to principles of "personal responsiblity" is that you assume that on our world we all start from the same mark, have the same opportunities, and that it is generally correct to assume that two people taking the same path will end up in the same place.
This is not to say that we have to start from the identical place in order to assign the same value to "personal responsibility." But, it is to say that as the son of a man and woman, upper middle class, who were themselves the son and daughter of upper middle class families -- it is pretty obvious that 40 years into it I'm going to be whining about having to pay for the others, who began by being born into a family that did not stay together or that struggled at a level I cannot comprehend, in order to make ends meet.
Second, even if I were to ignore all of that, the reality is that our society has ALREADY CHOSEN to make it the law that a person in need of emergent care gets it. The question is, how do we make the system as efficient as we can?
I truly would prefer a system whereby everyone would pay into the system equally or some other completely equal process of paying for it. But, the truth is we don't, and so the choice you present is a false one.
It is not personal responsibility versus government entitlement.
It is simply a question of where in the economy we shift the cost of paying for the entitlement we already created.
Now, if you want to repeal the laws that guarantee everyone care, okay, let's debate that. But don't mischaracterize what the actual issue is with this legislation.
one of my best friends actually comes from a place like that and yells about this louder than anyone on this forum. He came from nothing and has made a great life for himself. Please post your white guilt lecture elsewhere
The problem I see with this is it starts a slippery slope towards entitlement for everybody. I come from what you call a white middle class background and had opportunities. But I wasn't born into a wealthy family with a trust fund set up for me. Why shouldn't I get a mansion and cadillac when I grow up and not have to work for it? Others in this country have it, so should I because I wasn't fortunate enough to be born rich.
I think if people truly need help it is our moral obligation to help, but it shouldn't be automatic for anybody that doesn't feel life is fair. I had a good friend years ago that left an abusive marriage with two kids and needed assistance to get back on her feet. She is now self-supporting and doing fine. I think you would be hard pressed to find anybody on this board that disagrees with that situation.
Admit it or not, we have a system in this country where anybody can make it if they really want to. The industrial revolution made it possible for untold numbers of immigrants to make decent lives for themselves and their family when they came over here without a penny to their name.
I just don't buy what you are selling here.
Don't be dismissive of what I'm saying because you know someone who overcame the odds. You don't know the thousands of others that didn't beat the odds because they are dead or are in jail.
I'm NOT saying their lack of productivity is excused. I'm just saying that its not a fair comparison when discussing the morality of "personal responsibility."
I'm saying that once we decide to have it, it has to be paid for.
I am a HUGE fan of personal responsibility. But I am not unrealistic.
First, it is easy for a white guy making a good living, who comes from a nice middle class family, to bemoan the fact that so many others just can't seem to do what I have obviously done. Why can't they make the same personal sacrifices I had to make, such as studying in the dorms on a Friday night?
The problem with slavish adherence to principles of "personal responsiblity" is that you assume that on our world we all start from the same mark, have the same opportunities, and that it is generally correct to assume that two people taking the same path will end up in the same place.
This is not to say that we have to start from the identical place in order to assign the same value to "personal responsibility." But, it is to say that as the son of a man and woman, upper middle class, who were themselves the son and daughter of upper middle class families -- it is pretty obvious that 40 years into it I'm going to be whining about having to pay for the others, who began by being born into a family that did not stay together or that struggled at a level I cannot comprehend, in order to make ends meet.
Second, even if I were to ignore all of that, the reality is that our society has ALREADY CHOSEN to make it the law that a person in need of emergent care gets it. The question is, how do we make the system as efficient as we can?
I truly would prefer a system whereby everyone would pay into the system equally or some other completely equal process of paying for it. But, the truth is we don't, and so the choice you present is a false one.
It is not personal responsibility versus government entitlement.
It is simply a question of where in the economy we shift the cost of paying for the entitlement we already created.
Now, if you want to repeal the laws that guarantee everyone care, okay, let's debate that. But don't mischaracterize what the actual issue is with this legislation.
Education is an entitlement in this country. You don't hear people complaining that taxes to pay for No Child Left Behind is tantamount to the Kansas-Nebraska Act.
It's not about personal responsibility, it's about social justice.