Marriage

If ever been married, have you had a marriage that ended in divorce?

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#228
#228
PimpVol said:
What is worse is she keeps on with "it can't be fixed" without giving me a chance to fix it. So since she has moved on in her head, I am supposed to abandon my wife and family, merely because she has. Ludicrous. She told me my boys don't need me in their life and that they would fine with me coming to visit periodically. Equally ludicrous. She has really turned my world upside-down. And left it there. My sense of self-worth & purpose is totally lost. I was perfectly fine being husband/father. I have no desire to live in some other place away from my family. Who all happen to be perfectly healthy, but not with me because she is not "happy". #WhiskyTangoFoxtrot
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You have to get to the bottom of it before you make any drastic, life-altering changes. I am rooting, above all, for you to find answers (closure) regardless of the eventual outcome (either way).
 
#230
#230
SDV said:
Pimp. Go out and rent Fireproof.
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This!!!

Buy it. It's worth watching. You need her to watch it with you. Take the kids to grandparents or a neighbor. It will open both of your eyes, mind and heart.
 
#232
#232
Obsessed said:
This!!!

Buy it. It's worth watching. You need her to watch it with you. Take the kids to grandparents or a neighbor. It will open both of your eyes, mind and heart.
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What's it about, brief synopsis please.
 
#233
#233
hog88 said:
What's it about, brief synopsis please.
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It's about a marriage on the rocks. The wife asks for a divorce. Husband's dad talks to son and gives him a plan to follow. You'll have to watch the movie to find out what happens, don't want to spoil it.
 
#234
#234
holtridge said:
I am thinking about killing myself. I don't have much to live for anymore. Our country is going to hell and a hand basket.
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It worries me you haven't posted since this post. If you're lurking, please just post something.

Life kicks us all in the ass sometimes. I promise you that there's nothing that you're experiencing that can't be overcome with the right effort and attitude.
 
#235
#235
SDV said:
It's about a marriage on the rocks. The wife asks for a divorce. Husband's dad talks to son and gives him a plan to follow. You'll have to watch the movie to find out what happens, don't want to spoil it.
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Thanks
 
#236
#236
The plan is the book The Love Dare that I mentioned above...you youngsters are all about videos.
 
#237
#237
wildnkrazykat said:
Good luck pimp
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Been doing my best. Things may be moving back in a good direction. At least the free fall has stopped. She is not as angry. Now she talks instead of simply spitting fire. A lot of things she has said (actually all) are things I could not see from my vantage point. I am clearer on them now. Talking instead of arguing helps. We really had a huge disconnect speaking in terms of me having no clue of what was really going on inside her head. She is good @ hiding what is wrong until it is nearly to late to fix. I will continue to battle to keep my wife. And my family together. I will find this Fireproof being spoke of also. Can't hurt.
 
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#239
#239
PimpVol said:
Been doing my best. Things may be moving back in a good direction. At least the free fall has stopped. She is not as angry. Now she talks instead of simply spitting fire. A lot of things she has said (actually all) are things I could not see from my vantage point. I am clearer on them now. Talking instead of arguing helps. We really had a huge disconnect speaking in terms of me having no clue of what was really going on inside her head. She is good @ hiding what is wrong until it is nearly to late to fix. I will continue to battle to keep my wife. And my family together. I will find this Fireproof being spoke of also. Can't hurt.
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awesome, that you've been about to talk about it, without all the drama, and work towards fixing it..

will be great for the kids, if you can be family
 
#240
#240
PimpVol said:
Been doing my best. Things may be moving back in a good direction. At least the free fall has stopped. She is not as angry. Now she talks instead of simply spitting fire. A lot of things she has said (actually all) are things I could not see from my vantage point. I am clearer on them now. Talking instead of arguing helps. We really had a huge disconnect speaking in terms of me having no clue of what was really going on inside her head. She is good @ hiding what is wrong until it is nearly to late to fix. I will continue to battle to keep my wife. And my family together. I will find this Fireproof being spoke of also. Can't hurt.
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Easiest would be a lifeway store if u are near one. I have seen it at wal-mart on occasion as well.
 
#242
#242
PimpVol said:
First good night in well over a month.
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Awesome pimp. Hopefully the first of many. Now that you two are able to communicate WITH each other instead if AT each other, you've got a real good shot at making it. Safe to say i think we're all rooting for ya.
 
#243
#243
PimpVol said:
Been doing my best. Things may be moving back in a good direction. At least the free fall has stopped. She is not as angry. Now she talks instead of simply spitting fire. A lot of things she has said (actually all) are things I could not see from my vantage point. I am clearer on them now. Talking instead of arguing helps. We really had a huge disconnect speaking in terms of me having no clue of what was really going on inside her head. She is good @ hiding what is wrong until it is nearly to late to fix. I will continue to battle to keep my wife. And my family together. I will find this Fireproof being spoke of also. Can't hurt.
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That's good news. You and your family are in my prayers.
 
#248
#248
I have been doing my best. We are certainly talking/communicating much better. No fighting today at all. I almost feel good about where things are. If this weekend goes like I have planned it I will be back in the saddle, or at least she will :) .
 
#249
#249
McDad said:
Awesome pimp. Hopefully the first of many. Now that you two are able to communicate WITH each other instead if AT each other, you've got a real good shot at making it. Safe to say i think we're all rooting for ya.
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Thanks. I need all the help I can get.
 
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