Marriage

If ever been married, have you had a marriage that ended in divorce?

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SDV said:
Sup Smitty. Hope you are hanging in there
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yeah pretty good. we all went out for dinner and shopping tonight before i had to come to work. kind of a celebration for end of school for katie. today was her last day. Red Robin (because she loves their gluten free buns) then, target and wal mart... wal mart was fun though because it was epic people of wal mart stuff. Everybody was laughing. hard to know that while shes laughing on the outside she doesn't want to be married to me on the inside. But that's life, i'm detaching slowly but surely so that we could possibly have a chance later. both her and the counselor said that.

they leave for vacation with my in laws a week from today. i'm going to go somewhere on my days off, not sure where though. Miami, Vegas or Chicago(haven't been to Chicago so i'm leaning toward that)
 
#1,003
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rmsmith said:
yeah pretty good. we all went out for dinner and shopping tonight before i had to come to work. kind of a celebration for end of school for katie. today was her last day. Red Robin (because she loves their gluten free buns) then, target and wal mart... wal mart was fun though because it was epic people of wal mart stuff. Everybody was laughing. hard to know that while shes laughing on the outside she doesn't want to be married to me on the inside. But that's life, i'm detaching slowly but surely so that we could possibly have a chance later. both her and the counselor said that.

they leave for vacation with my in laws a week from today. i'm going to go somewhere on my days off, not sure where though. Miami, Vegas or Chicago(haven't been to Chicago so i'm leaning toward that)
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That's tough bro. Stay strong. God will lead you in the right direction. Just be there for Katie, no matter what
 
#1,004
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SDV said:
That's tough bro. Stay strong. God will lead you in the right direction. Just be there for Katie, no matter what
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Always, and i'm glad that she knows that. The trust she has in me is incredible. She likes for me to hold onto her hands and she walks her feet up my leg and over my shoulder. then she just falls back, knowing i'll catch her.

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Smitty, that's the toughest part, still doing things as a family
I'm still pulling for you that she doesn't file

Good Luck
 
#1,008
#1,008
I had a woman drag me down to a dark place. Never will that happen again. I've realized that I am better than that and I cannot control or take blame for the choices other people make.
 
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rmsmith said:
Always, and i'm glad that she knows that. The trust she has in me is incredible. She likes for me to hold onto her hands and she walks her feet up my leg and over my shoulder. then she just falls back, knowing i'll catch her.

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She is gorgeous smitty, and looks like a young lady with a big heart. You must be a proud father.
 
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golfballs said:
The latest stat I've seen is that around 45% of all marriages end in divorce. I'm interested to see where VN falls.

If you have gotten married at some point in your life, did you have a marriage that resulted in divorce?

If you have never tied the knot, then don't vote 'No' in the poll. :hi:

Note: the results of this poll are private.
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Stat's a little skewed. 45% might be true but it consists of people who have been married and divorced several times. I've been married many years to the same woman. My best friend has been married 4 times. Our combined divorce rate is 60%. The likelihood of divorce increases with each additional marriage.
 
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UGADawg4Life said:
Stat's a little skewed. 45% might be true but it consists of people who have been married and divorced several times. I've been married many years to the same woman. My best friend has been married 4 times. Our combined divorce rate is 60%. The likelihood of divorce increases with each additional marriage.
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I can tell you that the divorce rate in SF is about 82% and the rest of the military isnt far behind. Maybe we inflate the numbers a bit.

Good for you to still be married if thats what you were looking for by posting that..."golf clap"
 
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7thgroupvolfan said:
I can tell you that the divorce rate in SF is about 82% and the rest of the military isnt far behind. Maybe we inflate the numbers a bit.

Good for you to still be married if thats what you were looking for by posting that..."golf clap"
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you gonna be around the panhandle the 14th thru the 21st of June
 
#1,014
#1,014
vol_in_ar said:
Smitty, that's the toughest part, still doing things as a family
I'm still pulling for you that she doesn't file

Good Luck
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Thanks man. It's going to be a long journey either way. If she doesn't there is a lot of wrongs to be corrected and a lot of hurt to be repaired. If she does then I have to win her over again. I've been getting help though, I'm doing things for me to be a better person. If that wins her back great, if not then i'm still better than what i was.
 
#1,015
#1,015
all you can do is control what you do, and your feelings and actions
I've tried to figure what my ex is thinking and feeling, and it's impossible
especially when she won't talk about it
 
#1,018
#1,018
vol_in_ar said:
all you can do is control what you do, and your feelings and actions
I've tried to figure what my ex is thinking and feeling, and it's impossible
especially when she won't talk about it
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yeah, that's what i'm trying to do.

7thgroupvolfan said:
Actually I will be.

Smitty, dont waste your time playing a womans game, brah. You will lose everytime. Play your game and play by your rules.
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I am man. trust me.
 
#1,019
#1,019
I am so pissed at myself at not ever seeing George Jones live. I was planning it with a buddy when I was deployed in 2012. He died in april 2013. I just wanted to shake his hand. I am sure he would have been happy to shake mine to.
 
#1,022
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7thgroupvolfan said:
I am so pissed at myself at not ever seeing George Jones live. I was planning it with a buddy when I was deployed in 2012. He died in april 2013. I just wanted to shake his hand. I am sure he would have been happy to shake mine to.
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i used to get george jones and tom jones mixed up
 
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