exactly that and is part of the point. He was a star quarterback from a small town in Oklahoma went on to be a star QB at OK State. Since 1986 he has spent all but 4 years of his career in Stillwater (population 50k and more than half of that is the school and its employees). He is well beyond BMOC status he in the city. It is not right but almost any person in that set of circumstances would have his outlook. The question is why is anyone surprised or outraged? It's like when people point out that Hulk Hogan is a pathological liar and general POS..how are you surprised? Or Dog the Bounty Hunter Paula Deen said the bad word to someone. People are for the most part products of their environments. Gundy came from a time and place where pre-teen kids drank on a regular basis openly. No one is saying its right it is just so obvious it's sad people get outraged. If he came out and was like kick the kid off the team zero tolerance he'd be quite the hypocrite.
Also to put it in perspective both his statements. And note the kid got a DUI not a manslaughter charge, there was no accident or person hurt. Had the kid ran over someone it would put his statements in a whole different light but as is they make perfect sense.
initial statement
"One thing that I can say in Year 20 as a head coach that I probably wouldn't say in Year 2 is, everyone needs to look in the mirror and think, have I done that and not gotten caught?" Gundy said. "Have I had two or three beers and drove a car? Because two or three beers can put you over the legal limit. People need to put some thought into that and not throw stones through glass windows. Not that it's right, and I want him to understand the seriousness as a parent, and I think he did."
then after the blowup
"My intended point today at Big 12 media days was that we are all guilty of making bad decisions," Gundy wrote. "It was not a reference to something specific."
While Gordon could face internal penalties, Gundy said he views the matter as settled.
"I've been with Ollie a considerable number of times and listened to him," Gundy said. "He was remorseful and knew how serious it could have been. That allowed me to make a decision. I have to make a decision and there's a lot of people involved in this decision, not just him. I wanted it to be over with today, other than what he has to deal with from a legal standpoint. But for our team and me, it's over today and we try to regroup heading forward."
People get so caught up on soundbites they miss the whole point.