To me, the questions of who is the biggest rival and who do you dislike the most evoke fundamentally different answers. As someone who has followed the Big Orange for 46 years, Alabama has always been the biggest rival. I regard Tennessee-Alabama as, historically, the preeminent rivalry in Southern football. Despite that ugly eleven-game losing streak to the Bear, he had a way of badmouthing his own team and building up his opponent that you couldn't help but respect his program. Both Bryant and Neyland always considered the Third Saturday in October as the true measuring stick of their respective programs. Perhaps in the minds of Alabama fans, that respect has changed to a more deeply rooted hatred as a result of the probation that so many blame on Fulmer. If so, they need to remember that, without their repeated tendency to seriously violate NCAA rules, there would be no probation.
Florida, on the other hand, is the team that I truly despise. Spurrier, with his incessantly condescending comments, established a mindset that resonates to this day among their fans. I have no problem with their onfield success but, as old-school coaches used to say, "Act like you've been there before! Win with grace and lose with dignity."
As an old-guard program, Alabama takes winning in stride. Admittedly, I am not addressing the collective attitude exhibited by the multitude of bandwagon fans who currently support their program. Florida, on the other hand, exudes an arrogance and lack of respect that I truly despise.