So, I should be morally OK with them pursuing happiness, but not morally OK with them being gay. You really can't have your cake and eat it too here.
As far as the recruiting goes, why the hell do you think they are showing it in schools?? For sex-ed class?? This is geared towards kids that are trying to figure out what they are, so if you say it's OK now it will be more socially accepted later by them if they choose to go with it. Most every parent that I can think of wouldn't be OK with this being shown to their kids. It's indoctrination at the earliest levels, and if you don't think it is then I got some beachfront property in Memphis to sell you.