You know.. Tennessee v Kentucky has a whole new meaning for me.
My mother died 2 years ago right before the Florida game. She graduated from Tennessee in 1971. My parents got married in 1972. My dad, also a Tennessee alumnus, graduated in 1970. My aunt and uncle also graduated from Tennessee. I graduated from Tennessee in 1998 (spring, one semester too early!).
In October 2022 we had my mother's memorial at a bar here in Charlotte and we had friends and family, probably 30ish people, get together to celebrate my mother's life.
What better way to do it than watch Tennessee beat the crap out of Kentucky in those black uniforms? I don't think I can really explain what it meant to have everyone there that travelled in for this to watch this game and have a memorial at the same time.
Funnier yet, no one... No one.. Thought it strange to memorialize her while watching a Tennessee game. Which is all you need to know, to know what Tennessee meant to her.
I can safely say that my mom, the reason I'm as big a fan of Tennessee I am, had to be extremely proud of the Vols that night, and as she was of the the party we had to celebrate her life.
There woruld have been nothing she'd of liked better than to have been there with all of us (and she was) watching Tennessee football win that night.
We all talk about all the reasons we cherish this university. Most of us are alumni, or grew up on it, or both. We pass that on to our kids, and that's what makes the SEC, and Tennessee so special. My kids want to go to Tennessee. I love that.
I'll never forget that night. We were fortunate to have so many friends and family in attendance to honor her life and continue our family tradition that involves Tennessee football.
So as we get ready for this weekend's game, just remember, there is more to it than just wins and losses.
But wins are a lot more fun... and I'll never look at the Kentucky game the same way because of that night.
So...Go Big Orange. Love ya mom. Beat Kentucky.