Bullsh*t. I specifically avoided saying drunk driving for a reason. I personally know of other incidences in my own life of drunk people getting violent and hurting and even killing other people when they were otherwise non-violent. I didn't want to limit it to that. If I didn't say it, then you're interpreting it...that's not gaslighting...that's you making an assumption.
I donāt have a problem with folks drinking responsibly and my posts haven't been anti-alcohol. My point was that health related issues from food donāt compare to health related issues from alcohol. That's my opinion and I've got a right to share it. It takes a long time of repeated poor eating choices to severely impact your health but you can literally drink yourself to death or even get drunk and hurt others in a matter of hours. There's also a chemical impact on your brain from alcohol. These are FACTS. Alcohol has higher risks than unhealthy food. It isn't crazy to say that and certainly not gaslighting. How the hell is that such an upsetting thing for some folks to hear?
Editing to add: you should look up the definition of gaslighting before accusing someone of doing it. I said that my original post didn't specifically say drunk driving. That's the absolute truth...so it's impossible for me to be gaslighting you.