If our forefathers had believed the "no control" part, we would still be paying taxes to a European government.Obviously you're entitled to your beliefs. All we can control is our attitudes toward things. Not trying to preach.
Just sayibg, we really have no control over any of this. All we can do is our best. Yes, it is hard, and honestly will get harder.
Caution is prudent, but sacrificing freedom for lives is the exact opposite of what the first 200 years of this country were about.
Executive branches in most states and cities have far over-reached their constitutional authority. At some point, regardless of what the virus does, that limit has to be restored.