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Catbone said:
Thank you I appreciate that. I'm giving this one shot and if she's not going to give some effort herself after I've bent over backwards for her then I'm absolutely moving on.
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Hopefully things work out. A buddy of mine just informed me recently that his girlfriend told him this big fantasy she has about having sex in the back seat of the car. She wants him to drive.
 
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Devo182 said:
Good for trying. I disagree with people downplaying a serious dating relationship. That's weird to me. Dating can be nearly as serious as marriage, of course. My wife and I dated for 10 years and lived together for 5 before marriage. We just weren't in a rush to dump 15k until we were completely set with careers, grad schools, etc. Doesn't mean it wasn't as serious. We might as well have been married.

Do what you need to do to save a relationship worth it to YOU.

Though I do agree, if she isn't 100% in it as you are, that's really tough to swallow, but that's where I'd cut it off too.
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What on earth was going to require you to dump 15k to get a $100 marriage certificate?
 
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Catbone, I really like you man. And I do admire you for trying, but if she isn't 100% bought in as you claim to be, don't waste $ and time for something that may hurt for a while but you will get over and move on. Women outnumber men in this world so there will be others. Just make sure before you propose, if you do down the road, that she is, indeed, fully committed to you and there will be no doubt.
 
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MoCo_Vol said:
Are you even married?

I mean it's great you're willing to work on yourself and such, but if it's not to save a marriage you've been in for years I'd break that ish off. Wouldn't even think about couples therapy for just a dating type relationship.
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He said he’s head over the hills for her, it’s worth it to him. @Catbone, I know girl thinking. If she says she misses you after a breakup and going to couples therapy and you were just dating, she’s still interested. It’s either she’s scared or there’s something about your relationship that is bugging the crap out of her, but don’t want to let go. Either that or she’s bat sh!t crazy.
 
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MoCo_Vol said:
What on earth was going to require you to dump 15k to get a $100 marriage certificate?
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Haha yeah. We just always wanted a small wedding and to have all our friends and family there.

Well worth it - it was an absolute blast and people always tell us how it was the most fun wedding they'd been to. Sadly, that was with a cheap venue, cutting a lot of corners, a great photographer at half price because she was a friend, another friend was the officiant for free, etc. We even had to set a lot of it up ourselves. It was more so all the amenities that added up. But we always wanted a mountain wedding with free alcohol and great food and pictures and a DJ. We mostly just wanted everyone and ourselves to have a blast and we succeeded.

We also made it all back and more with gift monies. Thank god for rich uncles 😂
 
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Orangeredblooded said:
He said he’s head over the hills for her, it’s worth it to him. @Catbone, I know girl thinking. If she says she misses you after a breakup and going to couples therapy and you were just dating, she’s still interested. It’s either she’s scared or there’s something about your relationship that is bugging the crap out of her, but don’t want to let go. Either that or she’s bat sh!t crazy.
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They are all bat **** crazy. Some just hide it better
 
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Catbone said:
I know we all have different opinions on the matter, we'll see what happens but I do appreciate all you guys... Maybe I am crazy
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I had a girl who made me do this while we were in college. My fraternity brothers told me I was absolutely nuts for it and didn’t see what the girl was doing. Needless to say, a couple years after college, I finally saw it and got out, but I should’ve listened and seen it then.
 
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