mr.checkerboards
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Yeah my dad pushed baseball hard. I started playing 8u travel ball when I had just turned 6. Played fall ball every year as well. Afterbrec league I didn't have any interest in basketball so that was a no go, and I wasn't allowed to play football because I was too small. My mom wanted me to start wrestling earlier but my dad threw a fit, but I had some friends that did it and I brought it up.I never liked it because if one kid that was good enough couldn't play because of the cost I thought that was wrong. They always said we could do fund raisers and the like but my thing was that those parents couldn't get off to participate in that either. Burn out for kids is real and playing that many games is good for some but as I look back at some of the ones that parents "pushed" them I found that a large percentage never played high school ball much less college.
Everybody likes to see there children succeed but I think letting them be good at what they like is best. I played all sports growing up but football was my sport. My son played baseball but never football and I had people say why isn't he playing and my response was he ain't me. He made All Stars in baseball and was tired of playing and told me he wanted to try something else and I asked after All Stars and he said no now. I asked what he wanted to do and he said In-line hockey so I told him we would get his equipment. He played Ice Hockey in High School , In-Line for UT Chattanooga (club sport) and plays Ice Hockey to this day in the Beer Leagues in Nashville. I still enjoy watching him play and he's 28 and what I enjoy most is watching him glance up in the stands after he makes a play to this very day.
I totally understand the cost thing too, I was lucky enough that dad made enough to pay the bills and mom worked part time to cover ball for Mt sister and I. I understand not everyone having that luxury though.