FranklinVol16
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Do what this what you will but if you talk to anyone around the program this is the biggest stressor for next year.I’m not sure why people expect OT recruiting to be booming bc we’ve had 1 good year? Mix that in with Heup’s (supposed) approach of recruiting to culture and not overpaying and it seems perfectly normal and ok to me to be where we are. I’m sure we could’ve overpaid for someone by now if it was that much of a concern.
So I don’t see it as a legit criticism but we all have opinions.
Well they did with John Campbell. The transfer kid that went to Oregon we didn’t think was that good.Serious question then - why haven’t they just overpaid for a guy or 2 to relieve said stress?
Prayers continue, Brother. Please keep us updated.This place brought tears to my eye's!
We got home from the Hospital this morning and have spent most of our afternoon scheduling Drs appointments and follow ups.
So, my wife is blind in her right eye. This will make things difficult down the road but we dont care. That portion of her brain on the right side is dead. Doctors say headaches will be less and less as her brain finds a way to rewire itself. They put her on blood thinners that requires me to poke her in the stomach daily with a syringe until six weeks after the pregnancy.
They did a ultrasound and the babies vitals checked out fine. Its always a high risk after your first pregnancy. We are considered a higher risk situation due to what happened.
We still have lots of questions but it sounds like we are going to be alright.
Life can change in the blink of an eye.....
Hold your loved ones close and dont take anything for granted.
My family and I send our love and appreciation to all of those that reached out with prayers and support!
Thank you Volnation!
Thank you for sharing this story. I am pretty awed by it. Peace to you as well, Brother.Late last year my wife lost feeling in her hands, feet, and other areas, and was becoming ataxic. After months of doctor tricks we finally got the diagnosis...severe stenosis of the cervical spine. Called for immediate surgery that could leave her completely blind (told her that on the operating table) and quadriplegic. Surgery had some complications and post op her condition was considerably worse. By day 3 or so I was afraid we were going to lose her, story for another time. It was...hard. After 38 years I don't even know how to live without her by my side...
...but then the tide turned. We got her stable and she was able to go home after a couple more days...
...and then began the hard work of finding the new normal. I became the "woman of the house". Did things I'd never done. Helped her bathe. Dress. Go to the bathroom. Dyed her hair. I did my work. And her work. And took care of her. I was overwhelmed, but in time things got easier and became more routine.
After 4 weeks she finally started improving. Moved from a walker to a cane. Didn't need me quite so close. Approaching 6 weeks now she doesn't really need the cane too much, but balance is still a bit dodgy. She's almost back to where she was the day of surgery. I still help her bathe and I'll be up for the next dye job too. No worries, I'm an expert now.
I say all that to say that from sitting alone in a restaurant staring at a plate of food I couldn't eat and contemplating what life would be like without my partner of 38 years, I found a path to a new normal and God gave us the strength to walk it. And it's ok. Things I never thought I would do have become precious memories that I would hate to have missed. We adapt and grow and the new normal does actually become normal.
I wish she didn't have to face it. She's had way more than her fair share. Third spinal op. Heart valve replacement. Several other ops. It isn't fair, but it's our normal. And again, it's fine. We grow.
And you will be fine too. Peace brother.
How did we bungle Simmons and Ramil? I know most of us thought Ramil was in the bag.Well they did with John Campbell. The transfer kid that went to Oregon we didn’t think was that good.
What other tackles have taken us seriously? What miami paid Mauigoa was obscene. Not sensical. Calhoun is a guard. Warren isn’t an NIL deal. We bungled the Lucas Simmons and Staunton Ramil recruitments. We couldn’t get traction with Josiah Thompson or Kam Pringle. Marques Easley had some medical issues. Fletcher Westphal never felt realistic. Ethan Calloway I’m not sure what happened.
Next year, getting Petty and Sanders will begin to solve a lot of our problems! I have faith.Well they did with John Campbell. The transfer kid that went to Oregon we didn’t think was that good.
What other tackles have taken us seriously? What miami paid Mauigoa was obscene. Not sensical. Calhoun is a guard. Warren isn’t an NIL deal. We bungled the Lucas Simmons and Staunton Ramil recruitments. We couldn’t get traction with Josiah Thompson or Kam Pringle. Marques Easley had some medical issues. Fletcher Westphal never felt realistic. Ethan Calloway I’m not sure what happened.
Thanks for the updateWell they did with John Campbell. The transfer kid that went to Oregon we didn’t think was that good.
What other tackles have taken us seriously? What miami paid Mauigoa was obscene. Not sensical. Calhoun is a guard. Warren isn’t an NIL deal. We bungled the Lucas Simmons and Staunton Ramil recruitments. We couldn’t get traction with Josiah Thompson or Kam Pringle. Marques Easley had some medical issues. Fletcher Westphal never felt realistic. Ethan Calloway I’m not sure what happened.