Outofmyvolcanmind
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This seems like a communication issue. When the wife and I started getting serious and knew we wanted to get married and someday start a family, we took a Pre-Cana course at church. You basically are separated and write answers to difficult questions. One question was related to personal time and expectations. I told my wife up front that I am fanatical about Tennessee Football, Chicago Bear Football and if the Lightning or Rays make the playoffs. I told her while it seems stupid, those things are critically important to me. She said she could accept that and we're still married 22 years later.