100%. Whatever talking head you're listening to has no clue what they're talking about.
For one thing, Apple can't "give" out iPhone pas codes because each iPhone owner creates their own. Apple has no way of knowing any given person's passcode and can only help to try and figure out that passcode.
The FBI is saying that they "just want Apple to open one phone" because they know the majority of Americans (average joes AND those in the media) are tech illiterate and think that sounds perfectly reasonable. Really, they're trying to coerce Apple into creating a backdoor into the iPhone system for them to use "in this one case."
Assuming the FBI actually has the authority to do this(they don't), there are still a LOT of problems with that, so I'll just point out the main 3.
1. It sets a precedent that all tech companies can be required to create backdoor systems to bypass their own and their customers' security for cases in which the companies themselves are completely uninvolved outside of having sold a product to the criminal.
2. It sets a precedent for Apple and other tech companies to have to do the same in other countries where they sell their products. Do we really want the Chinese or other countries with notoriously corrupt governments to have access to a backdoor to every smart phone in the world?
3. Once created, these back doors will be very easily replicable by other companies, hackers, governments, etc.
Putting aside the legality of the FBI doing this (they can't force Apple to cooperate at all, really, any more than they can force me or you to pause our day jobs and help in their investigation) or whether or not they'd abuse this power (history says probably), it sets a lot poor precedents.