OrangeEmpire
The White Debonair
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I mean, we're talking basics here, like eating vegetables, brushing their teeth, doing their homework, reading, writing, arithmetic -- it's too easy for the system to let them just slip through, graduate from High School, and have no clue how to make a life for themselves.
Drill personal responsibility and self confidence into them.
The kids are born without a fighting chance.
Trust me, we do, every chance we get. Every time we see them we tell them, "Y'all are smart, and you can do anything you set your minds to."
But then again, we're not "responsible" for them. Their mom is, and she's trying to have a life of her own too, and she literally can't do it all herself. And we're also doing this on our own dime and our own free time. And we can walk away anytime we want.
Bureaucracy does not exist within the government only. Take a peek inside any sizable company, church, organization, and you'll see they've got plenty of it too.
Depressing but I don't see how anyone could expect a government program to effectively address these problems.
Trust me, we do, every chance we get. Every time we see them we tell them, "Y'all are smart, and you can do anything you set your minds to."
But then again, we're not "responsible" for them. Their mom is, and she's trying to have a life of her own too, and she literally can't do it all herself. And we're also doing this on our own dime and our own free time. And we can walk away anytime we want.
Why not?
Why couldn't it at least play a role? Private-public partnerships? Faith-based programs? Do you think individual citizens will voluntarily give up their time and money to address these problems on their own?
(and yes, government can be more efficient through reform, etc. - I'm all for that)
So we incent citizens to work on these programs? I honestly can't envision a program that would help.
It seems so convoluted to take money from citizens only to return it to them (or their church or whatever) to help less fortunate people.
As an alternative, the tax-exemption for charitable organizations is a better example of how the government can get out of the way to let these organizations operate.
You know what the difference is...........
Those things you mentioned are successful.......
You cannot tell me one thing that the government does that is just adequate.
I think I understand your position but what I would point out is that when you become a mother or father you give up your personal life to a large extent. Your life is consumed for the most part in work and taking care of the day to day needs of your child. I wish I could make three UT home games this year but neither our budget or schedule will allow for this, still I consider it a privilege to raise my little girl and would have it no other way. Maybe in a few years I can make a game or two.
This would be interesting, and VBH probably could give us some info or insight into this: I'd like to know what % of private businesses, churches, and other non-publicly funded organizations fail. And what % of government "fails." I'm not making any predictions, just would like to know the answer.
Why not?
Why couldn't it at least play a role? Private-public partnerships? Faith-based programs? Do you think individual citizens will voluntarily give up their time and money to address these problems on their own?
(and yes, government can be more efficient through reform, etc. - I'm all for that)
It seems so convoluted to take money from citizens only to return it to them (or their church or whatever) to help less fortunate people.
I don't think such a comparison is possible since failure means two different things in these contexts.
Failed government programs live on while failed private enterprises ceast to exist (the definition of failure in their case).
So you think if we got rid of all government programs to help the "disadvantaged" (or whatever you want to call them), the private sector would take the ball across the goal line?
And the reality thing is, she was not brought up the same way you were. And who knows why the fathers of her two children aren't around any longer.
When I said she's trying to have a life, she's trying to work and take care of things and try not to go insane. I can feel for her, even though she makes me really mad sometimes. The truth is, I honestly don't know all she's dealing with either.