EDIT: :good!::good!: to your brother-in-law.
I cannot root for any other BigTen team, and I find it especially hard to want anything good for um. My dad gets chemo at the um hospital, but that is about all that I tolerate out of that place.
I have always been the same way about the SEC also. I went to UF, Ive been a Gator since. . . about the age of 8. (considering I grew up in Michigan, that was not always easy to accomplish)
I was lucky most of the time because MSU and UF rarely ran into each other. And then the 2000 NCAA Basketball game, and then the 2001(?) Citrus Bowl, and a couple of run-ins at the NCAA Tourney, it got tough for a while. I was still pretty lucky because it almost always meant more for one school's PROGRAM, than it did for the others, so I could pick a side, and then just be miserable for the entire experience.
And then my daughter needed to pick a school. She applied to 3 (MSU UF UT) and was accepted to 3. She was offered a spot in the Honors college at all 3, and offered essentially a full academic scholly at all 3 (Hope Scholly+others at UT)
Her choice came down to
1) The school she has always loved, and dreamed of attending, which is now 8 hours from where her family lives
or
orders) The school that was only an hour+ away from her family's new home. And still a very good academic choice in her major.
Im glad she took option 2. and Im enjoying it 100%. Was just in Knoxville over the weekend to see her Good times.
But if I didnt have a kid at UT, I would not be a fan. Nothing against any of you, or your school, that's just the way things work out. You have me for all but one weekend every fall, and 2 games+ in the winter.