luthervol
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The year after Columbine, our district had a program were "potential school shooters" were identified. It was a long list of behaviors and characteristics and a specific number had to be checked before the district would step in. One kid checked almost every box.I sat through an IEP meeting once with a kid who was either bouncing off the walls or sleeping through class. The parents were at their wits' end and wanted us to figure out the issue before they went to a psychiatrist. I asked the parents what the kid had for breakfast; cold pizza, a candy bar, and a coke. Almost daily. Of course the kid was a mess, they were loaded with cheap carbs and sugar crashing! I asked if they would consider protein shakes or bars instead and they balked. Wouldn't even think of trying that, but wanted to chem up their kid.
Kid ultimately ended up in alternative school when the meds made things worse.
We had a meeting with the parents and the kid. The parents said they had multiple guns in the house and they did not and would not keep them locked away. The kid was in alternative school within a few months for various infractions and the father was charged with murder about 3 years later. He's still in prison....and I imagine his kid is there also.