You realize that encounter was their first sexual encounter, right? She even texts friends after that encounter and said he was an amazing human.
That she videos herself smiling after they had sex while he was laying in bed beside her asleep, and then a few days (actually after reading the time line it was more like a month or so) later she came back for a second encounter right?
Even what your posting seems to agree he wanted her to choke her unconscious. It doesn’t seem anyone is disputing that was her desire. Especially given she came back for more.
She even messaged him 3 days after the encounter in which she claims she was unconscious and sodimized, showing him a small bruise on the inside of her thigh from his thumb. When he saw the photo he apologized and she said “I’m into it”
After their second encounter she tagged him in a tweet about how good the d was, and took multiple selfies none of which show the injuries claimed.
She even messaged friends the next day showing bruises on her face but emphasizing the encounter was “consensual”
Her actual story seems to be: I drove 2.5 hours to his home, was raped by him, then began texting him about how I wanted a rougher experience the next time, so I drove 2.5 hours again to see him, and he raped me again. So now I’m suing him for the money I told my friends I was going to get from him before ever having sex with him.
You don’t actually believe that do you?