In defense of Stoops (who I despise his condescending attitude about everything practically), the Mixon deal did occur right after the Ray Rice thing did in 2014. NFL gave Rice a two game suspension while Stoops gave Mixon a 1 yr suspension. While the media went bat**** crazy once the Rice tape was public, I believe Stoops had already given his punishment to Mixon. NFL and Goodell set the standard initially too low and Stoops went further with his.
If the same thing happened here, there wouldn't be enough bodybags for all of the victims who would lose their job.
That "suspension" was a redshirt year so that Mixon could preserve his full 4 years of eligibility. No, Stoops didn't punish his prize 5 star freshman, he protected him like an asset. They saw video of him breaking a yoing lady's face and didn't think "he can't play here, we're going to cut him loose"....no, they went into protection/survival mode to make sure he remained viable for their program.
Contrast that with another coach you also likely despise, Steve Spurrier, who had a zero tolerance player for any player who put his hands on a female...they were immediately cut from his program.