zaqhhh
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What they need to tell people with cancer is that while you are off your chemo having surgery, that your cancer is going to spread, and we will be chasing it around your body, trying to cut it out. And, while we are cutting it out, it will go somewhere else, and somewhere else, etc. They should have done a total scan before the first surgery, instead of operating on the colon, and not checking anywhere else. This same thing has happened over and over, and everybody is dead. I have another friend with lung cancer right now and he will be dead with 3 or 4 months. These people may be able to set a broken bone, but they are limited in many cases.
My mother-in-law went to the E.R. in November, and died 36 hours later, after a Cat Scan. She was old and not in good shape, but she was lucid and walked in under her own power, and was nauseated and unresponsive shortly after the scan. The next day, she was dead. We fully expected to bring her home the same day. We took her to the funeral home instead.
I can't speak to this, but it seems that your assessment of doing a total scan would have been correct. Differences aside, I am sorry for all the loss you have had to go through, especially under those conditions.