AF is still stupid to do what he did and it looks more and more like he did. These types of women aren't new to him. Every major band, every major sports team, if you even smell like you have big time cash, these kind of women appear. I think they call them groupies or something like that. Today, the goal is less to be seen with so and so, than it is to get some hefty outcome like expensive jewelry or cash.
These women know that the courts give them an unfair advantage in these man bashing days. They will win even if they lose. The best device is to shed some "poor me" tears and paint the guy, true or not, as a blue meanie whose is just, "Oh so abusive." ABUSE is the important buzz word. And they often count on the guy blowing up or otherwise reinforcing the accusation, lending her a level of credibility she wouldn't have otherwise.
When a guy in AF's position, who has doubtlessly seen these women before and what comes with that. Including his teammates dealing with them. Plus wide-spsread news coverage of politicians, movie stars, and other sports figures who have been dumb enough to put themselves through this, he has to know. But then some chick comes up and wiggles her heenie, flashes "a come here" smile, show some cleavage, and practically throws her joy toy at them.
Knowing about STDs and the worst of them, HIV, and still doing it, and doing it without protection to boot? That's a level of not only dumbness, but a willful desire for self-destruction on all levels. Worse yet, if you're married, you're a callous murderer in my book.
It is equal to using a revolver with a single bullet in the chamber. Telling your wife you love her, spin the chamber, point the gun at her and pulling the trigger. You're doing that equivalent every time you're intimate with her. Knowing full well you may have contacted HIV but not even telling her. It's dumb, callous, and premeditated attempted, and if she gets it, actual murder. If his wife has sense, she'll run from him as fast as she can and take the kids with her. Let him have his bimbo, use the courts to get what is legally hers and stay gone.
Sorry, guys, obviously I'm really ticked off. But I feel the same about anyone who goes outside their marriage to either dip their wick in someone else lamp or give drilling rights to their oil well to someone not contracted to do so.