Alright...I was just made aware of this thread and I've been reading the last few pages or so, and I just can't sit back and not say anything. I have to say something.
In the last week to week and a half, I almost lost my Mother. She went in for a standard Hernia surgery at the end of June and, as of last Tuesday night (the 8th), there were concerns she wasn't going to make it. She ended up with over a liter of infection in her abdomen (causing a high fever and many complications). After emergency surgery on Wednesday (the 9th), she is now feeling somewhat better. She is STILL in the hospital, with a few complications and a stomach that is completely open and a drain tube still attached in her stomach.
Do I think God allowed this? YES, I DO.
Do I think it was "fair" that my Mom had to go through this? No, I don't
Am I questioning God and His grace and mercy? NO, I'M NOT!
No, it wasn't fair that my Mom almost died. No, it's not fair that I have been through complete and total hell the past few weeks.
But, GOD IS STILL GOOD. This trial that my entire family has gone through was not just some random occurence. God does not put us in this world and then just leaves us be.
God took this trial and He is working it for His good. He allowed Satan to attack my Mom, but He never left her side!
There are so many people out there who are praising God for this....b/c God allowed this to happen, but didn't let go.
Yes, my Mom could have died. Yes, it would have killed my soul. But, I would still have praised God. It might have taken a while to get over the shock, but no matter what happens, you just have to believe GOD HAS A PLAN FOR EVERYTHING.
And maybe I will never know why this happened. But, that's okay....because if we completely understood why God does the things He does, then God wouldn't be the mighty and glorious God He is.
It's not our place to understand the whys or why nots....it's our place to just trust that God knows what He is doing and that He will get us through ANYTHING.
We are not promised a perfect world while we are alive. That's not the point. The point is to trust God and lean on Him while we are alive....to prepare to spend eternity with Him in Heaven. That's His big plan!
So, yes....bad things happen. And yes, God allows them....but He stands right by us and gets us through it.
Being a Christian and believing in and loving God does not guarantee a world without heartache or fear.