Here's is what I have to say about Kiffin... If you were in a relationship and the person you dated beat you black and blue would you take them back if they "changed" afterwards?
If your answer is yes then shame on you. Have some pride and self worth. Maybe he will make the next person happen but what he did to you is unforgivable. And your self worth is worth more than that.
That's how I view it anyways. He made his bed. We shouldnt have to risk it to fix it.
You do realize a relationship is slightly different than a university football program? If our program is being run with no more business sense than that we really are in trouble.
Here's an analogy for you: suppose you owned a small company, and your star employee left in the middle of the night for a Fortune 500 company. In four years he flamed out there; but then he slowly built back his reputation, including making a lot of money for a Fortune 100 company in a lesser role than the one he had at the 500; then he made a lot of money for a business even smaller than yours, more money than that business had ever made, by far, to the point that he was suddenly in demand again by Fortune 500 companies for another executive role like the one he had lost.
Suppose this guy, in the brief time he had worked for you, had made you more money than any other employee you had had in several years prior to that; he had made you drastically more money than any employee you've had since, and to tell the truth, now you've had a run of fully-certified idiots, and your business is on the ropes, as in, two or four more years of this and you're in Chapter 13.
And then you hear from a friend of a friend that that former star employee that made you all that money, wants his old job back. He hasn't left any job since you the way he left you, so there is some evidence that perhaps he has done as one or two other men in history have done, and matured.
Do you hire him and get to saving your business, or do you go down with the ship so you can keep your cherished pride at all costs?
It takes a special kind of fool to put his pride above the welfare of his business - or his football team.