Harsin may be on the way out

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WilcoVolsFan said:
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A badass? No just someone who smacked you down for shooting off your mouth when you didn’t know a damn thing about me or my family. But hey, I bet you put $5 in the offering plate yesterday morning, you great Christian you. Jesus is proud of you.
 
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sjt18 said:
No. He's not. No matter what "wrong" you deem the girl has done... that doesn't make what adult, grown, 30+ men are doing right.
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If want want to live on a planet where 30+ year old men don’t look at attractive 25+ year old women when afforded the opportunity, this is not that planet…Biology 101 and whatnot…

If you want to ensure your daughter isn’t the target of unwanted attention on social media, you instill personal responsibility in your daughter and clearly communicate the negative consequences.

What’s interesting throughout all this discussion is the obvious fact that this young lady at Auburn has no problem whatsoever with anyone looking at her pictures online.
 
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sjt18 said:
No. He's not. No matter what "wrong" you deem the girl has done... that doesn't make what adult, grown, 30+ men are doing right.
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People pile on even when they don’t know the real story. I would never bring a pic of anyone from their social media and post them. It is kind of creepy. Another thing what harsin might be doing with this girl is none of my business. If it isn’t true, I hope he makes a lot of bank from it.
 
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volfanhill said:
You keep acting as if she's 16. She's an adult. Doing adult things.
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No. I'm acting like she is a human being and the daughter of human beings. She's a young person. She did and is doing stupid things young people do. That doesn't mean that fully grown creepers should be posting those mistakes all over the internet.
 
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Volstar65 said:
People pile on even when they don’t know the real story. I would never bring a pic of anyone from their social media and post them. It is kind of creepy. Another thing what harsin might be doing with this girl is none of my business. If it isn’t true, I hope he makes a lot of bank from it.
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I actually think this is a case where it is the business of other people. What he did is classic sexual harassment. He used the power of his position to seduce a young subordinate. In spite of what Bill Clinton got away with, the law still holds that there is no such thing as a consensual relationship between someone at his level and someone at hers.

I think she did wrong. I think the pictures she's posted that have been copied her are trashy and classless. That doesn't excuse those reposting them... they're not behaving any better.
 
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sjt18 said:
No. I'm acting like she is a human being and the daughter of human beings. She's a young person. She did and is doing stupid things young people do. That doesn't mean that fully grown creepers should be posting those mistakes all over the internet.
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What if this woman in her mid-20s doesn’t think it’s a mistake to post those pictures, or grant access to anyone to view what she posted?
 
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Lawrence Wright said:
If want want to live on a planet where 30+ year old men don’t look at attractive 25+ year old women when afforded the opportunity, this is not that planet…biology and whatnot…
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Looking? That's their private business. That's not what these guys are doing. They're plastering her image all over the place.

If you want to ensure your daughter isn’t the target of unwanted attention on social media, you instill personal responsibility in your daughter and clearly communicate the negative consequences.
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I did... but am not foolish enough to believe that every kid who posts stupid stuff is the result of parents who did any less.

What’s interesting throughout all this discussion is the obvious fact that this young lady at Auburn has no problem whatsoever with anyone looking at her pictures online.
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Her doing wrong... doesn't justify someone else doing wrong.
 
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Boston Vol said:
Why because I might instill personal responsibility into her and tell her that there might be consequences for posting pictures for the entire world to see?
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No. Because you have no empathy or understanding that as "perfect" as you think you would be as a parent... your kids will still have a mind of their own.
 
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Lawrence Wright said:
What if this woman in her mid-20s doesn’t think it’s a mistake to post those pictures, or grant access to anyone to view what she posted?
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That's her prerogative. And it doesn't make it right for grown men here to repost it all over the place. Her doing wrong doesn't make it right for someone else to do wrong. In spite of what you and others have said, she's a "kid". She's an immature adult who will grow up someday and live with a lot of regret. There's no need for creepy men who are already supposedly grown up... to make that worse.

I'm not excusing anything she's done.
 
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sjt18 said:
No. Because you have no empathy or understanding that as "perfect" as you think you would be as a parent... your kids will still have a mind of their own.
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This is actually a good point.

As a parent, all you can do is provide consistent and clear guidance, and hope your children see the value of it. If they don’t, that’s on them.
 
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sjt18 said:
That's her prerogative. And it doesn't make it right for grown men here to repost it all over the place. Her doing wrong doesn't make it right for someone else to do wrong. In spite of what you and others have said, she's a "kid". She's an immature adult who will grow up someday and live with a lot of regret. There's no need for creepy men who are already supposedly grown up... to make that worse.

I'm not excusing anything she's done.
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I am still wondering if she has done anything wrong...She is A Diva, but she followed her boss to Auburn.. This is a possible ploy by boosters to get Harsin fired and there maybe no truth to it...
 
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sjt18 said:
No. Because you have no empathy or understanding that as "perfect" as you think you would be as a parent... your kids will still have a mind of their own.
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Who said anything about me being a “perfect” parent if I ever choose to have children? I love how people of your ilk insert language that no one used or even suggested. How about just educating my imaginary daughter, about the risks of having a social media account. And then letting her make decisions that she feels in her best interest?
 
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Boston Vol said:
Why because I might instill personal responsibility into her and tell her that there might be consequences for posting pictures for the entire world to see?
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I dont think it’s about her posting them, it’s about the grown men going to look a them. Just because they’re out there to be viewed and she’s ok with them being viewed, it doesn’t offset the creepiness of grown men (likely older than her) seeking the photos out.
 
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sjt18 said:
No. I'm acting like she is a human being and the daughter of human beings. She's a young person. She did and is doing stupid things young people do. That doesn't mean that fully grown creepers should be posting those mistakes all over the internet.
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Let me help you. SHES POSTING IT ALL OVER. And she's an adult. Your act is old and tired. She clearly has no problem with it being spread and shown everywhere.
 
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volfanhill said:
Let me help you. SHES POSTING IT ALL OVER. And she's an adult. Your act is old and tired. She clearly has no problem with it being spread and shown everywhere.
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And none of that excuses YOU or anyone else from plastering it everywhere. I'm not really sure why that's difficult for you. They are HER images. If she wants to do something stupid (depending on your perspective) with them then that's her prerogative. She didn't cause you or anyone else to do ANYTHING. That's a statement about you, not her.
 
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Boston Vol said:
Who said anything about me being a “perfect” parent if I ever choose to have children? I love how people of your ilk insert language that no one used or even suggested.
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Yeah. You didn't just suggest it. You said it.

"Why because I might instill personal responsibility into her..." Some kids rebel. Some kids do things against what was "instilled" into them by their parents. All parents that love their kids... hope that adult men will be responsible and moral enough not to compound the problems their kids create for themselves.

How about just educating my imaginary daughter, about the risks of having a social media account. And then letting her make decisions that she feels in her best interest?
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Again, you can keep pointing back to the girl but I'm not disagreeing that her behavior was bad or whatever you want to call it. I disagreeing with YOUR apparent idea that her mistakes are something you should magnify all over the place.
 
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