I understand where you're coming from, and you're right, we have been through a lot and it's frustrating as hell sometimes when we have days like Saturday, wonder wtf happen, after the game we see our kids spirits just broken down, we feel their pain, read the boards, and 95% of the parents read these boards; 80% actually post and y'all just dont' know it; you just happen to know who I am...... We're all fans of UT football at the end of the day, families are just more vested, and I respect your opinion.
All respect for you MZTERRY, and most often enjoy your input. However (my personal opinion) that combination is not the best mix.
Everyone has the right to read and post as they so choose. But when someone comes out as "I'm such and such's parent. I know the staff. I have insight to the program." etc... It should create a different sense of responsibility in what and how you post. It may not be fair, but it's the reality when you come out as a player's parent.
If players' parents are reading the forum, recruits' parents are reading the forum-- which I believe you have chastized many with this very fact.
How good is it for the program for recruits and their parents to see current players' parents criticizing the coaches and insinuating that the program is rotting from the head down? How beneficial is it to paint the team as a headless chicken, just flapping around because it doesn't know it's dead yet?
How beneficial is it to a fractured fanbase, after an embarrasing loss, to have a public fan with insight into the inner workings of the program, to post that stuff?
How beneficial is it to your son to have people approach CBJ and ask what he thinks of one of his players' moms publically criticizing him and alluding to the fact that his leadership is damaging the team-- that the team is just flopping around like a dead chicken because his leadership MIA?
I have mad respect for you and generally appreciate your insight. But that was very bad mojo, and I wouldn't have expected it from you. (That's probably indicative of how hard you took Saturday, as did most of us.)
Let's petition Freak to allow you a second, anonymous account, in which you can vent. That would allow you to post just like any of the rest of us. But IMHO, the MZTERRY account needs to refrain from that stuff.
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