Let's see if I understand you correctly. Because I said that I moved next door to a black man, who was here before me, you consider my bringing that up to mean that I am covering up the fact that I am a closet racist. You decide that I don't communicate with any other blacks. He does have a wife, two kids, and several friends that I must necessarily ignore.
Following that line of logic, if I had said that I wouldn't live within 20 miles of a black person, and had no black friends or acquaintances, would you then consider me to not be a racist?
By the way, I did notice some racial comments on the black coach thread that were both repulsive and insensitive. They were #17, # 97, and # 132.