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Passing judgment? From the details in that article, I have as much right to call him out as you do to protect him.
Let's, for a second, imagine this conversation:
Friend (Ronnie Tuisappo or whatever): "Dude, I got an idea as to how to boost your popularity."
Manti: "Okay, let's hear it."
Ronnie: "You have this fake girlfriend for a year or so. We put it on twitter and everything. Then, we say she dies of leukemia. People will eat it up!"
Manti: "Sounds good! Let's do it!"
Who has that conversation?
Remember, the article states they met either in 2009 or starting twittering each other in 2010. So they carried this out for allegedly 2-3 years...
From Deadspin? And Notre Dame already states that Manti was part of a hoax.
So why believe Deadspin over Notre Dame, who is putting their reputation on the line here.
Anyways, I'm not trying to ultra protect him or anything. I want to believe this was a cruel joke because this is awful if ture. I'm just trying to make sense of it for the most part. And at no point have I heard a reasonable explanation for why Manti Te'o would have a fake girlfriend and then fake her death.
From Deadspin? And Notre Dame already states that Manti was part of a hoax.
So why believe Deadspin over Notre Dame, who is putting their reputation on the line here.
Anyways, I'm not trying to ultra protect him or anything. I want to believe this was a cruel joke because this is awful if ture. I'm just trying to make sense of it for the most part. And at no point have I heard a reasonable explanation for why Manti Te'o would have a fake girlfriend and then fake her death.
So pretty much seals him as a liar.
Let's, for a second, imagine this conversation:
Friend (Ronnie Tuisappo or whatever): "Dude, I got an idea as to how to boost your popularity."
Manti: "Okay, let's hear it."
Ronnie: "You have this fake girlfriend for a year or so. We put it on twitter and everything. Then, we say she dies of leukemia. People will eat it up!"
Manti: "Sounds good! Let's do it!"
Who has that conversation?
Remember, the article states they met either in 2009 or starting twittering each other in 2010. So they carried this out for allegedly 2-3 years...
That's fine. I think most individuals would be justified in lying, about having an internet relationship/love affair, to a generation that in no way understands such things and would pass judgment for those things.
It was not more than ten years ago that internet dating was absolutely frowned upon and individuals who resorted to dating sites were viewed as absolutely desperate pariahs. Now, internet dating is just seen as another medium for meeting people and it is quite popular (at least in Boston/Chicago/Seattle/Kansas City).
Te'o may have felt ashamed for falling in love with someone on the internet and having a relationship that only consisted of internet chats (and, quite possibly, phone calls if there was a girl in on it...which would make his dad's story, that he had spoken with her on the phone, entirely legit). That does not meant that Te'o could not have legitimately had feelings for this phantom, though.
lol you dont find it weird that Notre Dame releases this statement after the deadspin article breaks, even though it was supposed to be known a hoax since dec 26th according to them?
From Deadspin? And Notre Dame already states that Manti was part of a hoax.
So why believe Deadspin over Notre Dame, who is putting their reputation on the line here.
Anyways, I'm not trying to ultra protect him or anything. I want to believe this was a cruel joke because this is awful if ture. I'm just trying to make sense of it for the most part. And at no point have I heard a reasonable explanation for why Manti Te'o would have a fake girlfriend and then fake her death.
If it were true. Doesn't appear to be the case.
From Deadspin? And Notre Dame already states that Manti was part of a hoax.
So why believe Deadspin over Notre Dame, who is putting their reputation on the line here.
Anyways, I'm not trying to ultra protect him or anything. I want to believe this was a cruel joke because this is awful if ture. I'm just trying to make sense of it for the most part. And at no point have I heard a reasonable explanation for why Manti Te'o would have a fake girlfriend and then fake her death.
At the very least, he claimed to talk on the phone every night and fall asleep on the phone... but I guess they could have some random girl talk to him as well, but it seems strange.