goldvol
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With my son. For multiple reasons:
1. I want my daughter to have some choice as to when she see's a naked man, if at all possible.
2. My son will have had 14 years of seeing his own garbage, and if he's showering in a communal facility, he'd be seeing other naked men whether they are gay or straight no matter what.
3. I'm not of the belief that a gay man can't control himself around other men. But if he were to do something inappropriate, I hope that I will have taught my son how to handle it correctly.
And what would you define as inappropriate? Surely a man that's attracted to other men wouldn't try to look at a naked man in the shower. I mean, of course he would be controlled enough to not gawk. But well, oops, he just happened to catch a glimpse of your naked son picking up the soap. He never really noticed how athletic he was before. oh, wait, he thinks, I won't look much longer over there. Just one more peak, he is pretty well endowed, he thinks as he starts to get aroused... hmm, he thinkgs, I wonder if his shoulder is sore from when he got hit in the game. I bet he wouldn't mind if I rub out the swelling....
That will never happen!
All of this can be reversed to apply my daughter if you had asked about a gay woman.
How about you answer the question you've been asked twice?
I would not want a gay man to shower with my 14 year old son or daughter. For some of the same reasons for my daughter, and for the reasons I have given for my son.