I guess I'm looking around and, every day now, seeing so many truly alarming, devastating things going on in this country and all over the world that I've decided to reserve what little emotional rage bandwidth I still have left for those things. The amount of energy being spent on this is insane. I wish some of that national energy could be spent doing something productive.
It is sort of insane, but it's also what comes with being celebrities and being in spotlights - which is what a lot of these athletes want, and, whether they want it or not, what all successful athletes receive. It's part of achieving the dream. It's just that sometimes they don't want what can come with celebrity. Things like responsibility, or expectations. The game isn't played in a vacuum. They could do that anytime, anywhere. Meet up and the gym and play ball. That's not what this is though.
It's not like I don't get some of the thinking about "you can't tell me what to do." If I made 200 million dollars, I wouldn't want anyone telling me what to do, either.
But the trick here - the real heart of this debate - is the fact this isn't really about the athletes, it's about the society that elevates them. A compelling case could be made that some of the alarming and devastating things that are going on in our country are a reflection of our lack of humility, respect, and to a degree, propriety. Who are our role models? What do we celebrate and applaud? What do we dismiss or ignore? What does it say about us, if a certain action or behavior is okay or not okay? That is where the rubber of the situation meets the road, and where I think the real contentious stuff shows up.
Me personally, I don't feel much rage about this situation. Mostly incredulity that the behavior we've discussed is acceptable in a college game, for reasons I've outlined repeatedly. I've seen a lot of stuff in college basketball, things both exemplary and awful, but I've never seen
that. And when the people acting this way are out there supposedly representing schools and communities, wearing their school colors and the names on the jerseys, being rewarded and lauded, in a game that talks incessantly about sportsmanship, well, you know, it doesn't add up.
I'm not foolish enough to think anyone's going to change their mind because of what I just wrote, but that's how I see it. I'm not wasting much energy on it, but it seems like this sort of thing is going to be a part of the game, so it's not going to go away as a topic. Regrettable, to be sure.