Read where I went into a little more detail. The kids are working hard to better themselves. They're showing a resolve their mom never has. I support that and want that to firmly take root. Success will drive them to work harder as they appreciate what they have earned.
My nephew was a diligent student and now has a job in Dallas. When it comes to work, he doesn't slack. Very responsible and I'm very proud of him for it. My niece has four kids, a job, and goes to school. She's had her slips, but she has worked to overcome a lot of adversity. She could sit at home and draw welfare but she doesn't, she wants more. Should I not encourage that? Bottom line, she's working hard, and when she struggles, I do my best to help out. I'm extremely proud of her as well.
And as a side note to PJ, I'm really not trying to toot my own horn here, but I feel this is a case where having a break comes in. Both have worked hard, I have been able to help both when they needed(thus a break), and they are finding success. Could they have found other ways? Very possibly, but it's also possible they might not have.
