In all fairness and respect to Bcarter, who sounds like a good dude, this is not the way things went down at all. I think he may be pissed bc he feels misled by some boosters, but all the information one needs to know this was a legitimate chance is out there for public consumption.
Heck, the TFP article discussed staff members who were planning to come with him, and fully believed the deal would be done. Rucker reported he called Bisaccia to be his ST coordinator at TN. Hubbs and Hyams both reported similar things. Gruden would not have gotten his whole package together had they not been well down the road. This is not the behavior of a casual conversation about hypothetically being interested in a job.
That TN and Gruden were close to getting this done is not an opinion or message board rumor mongering. If you'll recall, about a week ago Hyams and Mr SEC both reported that TN and Gruden were very close but that is when the "snag" stuff started and then Hyams went back to "less than 5%."
Anyway it doesn't matter now -- I don't think -- but just wanted to put this back out there so you guys don't feel like you were taken down a road by rumors. This was very very real.