Parents With Little Screaming Kids

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Coug said:
If they don't like being judged or told what to do with their child then they shouldn't take their horrible child out in public to begin with.
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A kid having a single meltdown does not mean they are a horrible child. Sorry it may inconvenience someone but there are times when you have no other choice but to let them do it while you finish your errands. Free time is a luxury

Someone running their mouth about the child without the slightest clue what's going on is an idiot. I'm not saying they deserve to get punched..... but I understand
 
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utvolpj said:
A kid having a single meltdown does not mean they are a horrible child. Sorry it may inconvenience someone but there are times when you have no other choice but to let them do it while you finish your errands. Free time is a luxury

Someone running their mouth about the child without the slightest clue what's going on is an idiot. I'm not saying they deserve to get punched..... but I understand
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Yeah a lot of poor choices here. The mother is clearly in the wrong, but it's dumb to try and wedge this into Ras' cartoonish narrative that all women are evil, entitlement whores. When it comes down to it, it's hard to believe any child's behavior could be so unbearable that one couldn't handle a couple of minutes in a checkout line without escalating an already tough situation.
 
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VolsNSkinsFan said:
The hipster chick learned a valuable lesson. That kid could've been autistic for all we know
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You just never know. Although, I suspect if the child actually had an issue, the mother would be used to dealing with the public outbursts and the looks/comments that come along with it and handled things a whole lot better.
 
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Spartacavolus said:
An even bigger reason to keep your mouth shut is the moment you realize you are dealing with an idiot.
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It's hard to say what happened. A lot of assumptions being made.

What I do know is the mother physically attacked this person after they had walked away.
 
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VolsSportsFan said:
It's hard to say what happened. A lot of assumptions being made.

What I do know is the mother physically attacked this person after they had walked away.
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The victim said she "politely asked" the mother to calm her child down. That's mistake one and started the problem. #2, if you can listen to the victim and think she was nice about anything, I'd bet against you. Then she told her to go to hell in front of the kid.

Mouthy, stuckup girl isn't touched if she doesn't instigate the entire deal. Twice.
 
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The thing most people without kids fail to realize is that there is no one who wants the kid to be quiet more than the parent. Saying something to the parent does absolutely nothing to help the situation and can only make it worse. This girl learned that lesson the hard way
 
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vols 30 said:
That lady got what she deserved. Telling a parent to calm their kids never ends well. Mind your damn business next time!
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I can't tell if you're being serious but the justification for a woman being assaulted over giving her opinion is astounding.
 
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Goldie said:
I can't tell if you're being serious but the justification for a woman being assaulted over giving her opinion is astounding.
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Telling the mom to "go to hell" in front of her kids wasn't the smartest thing to do. Call me crazy but the hipster chick should've asked "can I help?"
 
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utvolpj said:
The thing most people without kids fail to realize is that there is no one who wants the kid to be quiet more than the parent. Saying something to the parent does absolutely nothing to help the situation and can only make it worse. This girl learned that lesson the hard way
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The couple beside us at Logans yesterday would disagree. They let that brat scream for at least 30 minutes. Didn't seem to bother them.
 
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Coug said:
So you think someone verbally telling you that you should probably quiet down your child is an excuse to get violent or even if someone tells you to go to hell is an excuse to get violent?



If they don't like being judged or told what to do with their child then they shouldn't take their horrible child out in public to begin with.



So basically you're saying that if the mother had been white instead of black the whole go to hell part along with the parking lot incident probably would have never taken place.
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Wut?? What I said had nothing to do with race. Trashy people of any race would have done the same thing that black mom did; trashy people gonna trashy people just like Thig gonna Thig.
 
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Spartacavolus said:
The victim said she "politely asked" the mother to calm her child down. That's mistake one and started the problem. #2, if you can listen to the victim and think she was nice about anything, I'd bet against you. Then she told her to go to hell in front of the kid.

Mouthy, stuckup girl isn't touched if she doesn't instigate the entire deal. Twice.
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The mom has the right to retaliate verbally. When she tracked her and physically attacked her, she loses all credibility.

Is the hipster chick an idiot? Probably. Is the mother an idiot? Based on how she resolves issues, absolutely.
 
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utvolpj said:
The thing most people without kids fail to realize is that there is no one who wants the kid to be quiet more than the parent. Saying something to the parent does absolutely nothing to help the situation and can only make it worse. This girl learned that lesson the hard way
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That's great and all, but no amount of excuse making makes what the mom did ok.
 
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VolsSportsFan said:
That's great and all, but no amount of excuse making makes what the mom did ok.
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I don't think I've seen anyone post that the mom was right to do what she did.
The point that you and others are missing is if the mouthy girl doesn't open her obviously rude mouth, she doesn't leave an opening for an idiot to lose control and screw her teef up.

And when you verbally tell somebody to go to hell, all bets are off, imo. People can say whatever they want, but sometimes words have repurcussions, especially when spoken in front of a child about or to the parent.
If I read correctly, did the mom go put the child in the car then find the girl in the lot? At least she didn't do it in front of the child if so.
 
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Spartacavolus said:
I don't think I've seen anyone post that the mom was right to do what she did.
The point that you and others are missing is if the mouthy girl doesn't open her obviously rude mouth, she doesn't leave an opening for an idiot to lose control and screw her teef up.

And when you verbally tell somebody to go to hell, all bets are off, imo. People can say whatever they want, but sometimes words have repurcussions, especially when spoken in front of a child about or to the parent.
If I read correctly, did the mom go put the child in the car then find the girl in the lot? At least she didn't do it in front of the child if so.
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No, I'm not missing it. I just disagree it's as black and white as you're making it out to be. As I said, if she wants to verbally go back at the hipster chick, fine. The minute she made it physical, she takes it up a notch and loses any moral ground she had. You can disagree, but that's how I see it.

If someone telling you to "go to hell" causes you to track them down and attack them, then you have issues, especially when we don't even know what the mother may have said before that. Given that she tracked down and attacked her, I highly doubt her language towards the girl was rosy. Oh and she didn't do it in front of the child? Well let's give her the Mother of the Year Award.
 
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Coug said:
Sparta was out to dinner. :)
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I don't like being near the huge peanut bucket that everybody else is putting their booger eating fingers into and fingering all the peanuts.

But my kids are awesome. Well behaved. Yessir, nossir. And one is autistic. And I have volunteered for the Autism Foundation for a decade. And I've been around kids, coached 100's of kids, and have been out and about in my 45 years.

And you don't say a damn word to a lady about her child or tell her to go to hell. Period. If you think there is an issue that is a police matter, then you inform someone. Otherwise, you shut your damn mouth, mind your own business, and save your teef, like I said previously.

And people think it's ok to tell someone to go to hell, but oh no, please don't hit me because I verbally assaulted you?
That's part of the problem with kids nowadays. They want to be able to say or do whatever they want, without repurcussions.
 
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Spartacavolus said:
I don't like being near the huge peanut bucket that everybody else is putting their booger eating fingers into and fingering all the peanuts.

But my kids are awesome. Well behaved. Yessir, nossir. And one is autistic. And I have volunteered for the Autism Foundation for a decade. And I've been around kids, coached 100's of kids, and have been out and about in my 45 years.

And you don't say a damn word to a lady about her child or tell her to go to hell. Period. If you think there is an issue that is a police matter, then you inform someone. Otherwise, you shut your damn mouth, mind your own business, and save your teef, like I said previously.

And people think it's ok to tell someone to go to hell, but oh no, please don't hit me because I verbally assaulted you?
That's part of the problem with kids nowadays. They want to be able to say or do whatever they want, without repurcussions.
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Well by that token, I guess if the mother ended up getting her ass kicked, she had it coming huh?
 
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Spartacavolus said:
I don't like being near the huge peanut bucket that everybody else is putting their booger eating fingers into and fingering all the peanuts.

But my kids are awesome. Well behaved. Yessir, nossir. And one is autistic. And I have volunteered for the Autism Foundation for a decade. And I've been around kids, coached 100's of kids, and have been out and about in my 45 years.

And you don't say a damn word to a lady about her child or tell her to go to hell. Period. If you think there is an issue that is a police matter, then you inform someone. Otherwise, you shut your damn mouth, mind your own business, and save your teef, like I said previously.

And people think it's ok to tell someone to go to hell, but oh no, please don't hit me because I verbally assaulted you?
That's part of the problem with kids nowadays. They want to be able to say or do whatever they want, without repurcussions.
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Trying to see your point, but it's flying above my head. I don't see how any words justify a physical attack. Sure, maybe the girl should have said nothing, but the fact that she did doesn't make it okay for the mother to attack her. What kind of lesson does that teach the child? It's okay to beat on people who disrespect you? Teacher makes you look dumb in class, beat the hell out of him/her. That makes no sense. Poor judgement may have been used on both sides, but one side used poorer judgement.
 
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Weezer said:
Trying to see your point, but it's flying above my head. I don't see how any words justify a physical attack. Sure, maybe the girl should have said nothing, but the fact that she did doesn't make it okay for the mother to attack her. What kind of lesson does that teach the child? It's okay to beat on people who disrespect you? Teacher makes you look dumb in class, beat the hell out of him/her. That makes no sense. Poor judgement may have been used on both sides, but one side used poorer judgement.
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Nobody is arguing that the attack was justified; just that the words created a situation for an idiot to be an idiot.
 
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GAVol said:
Nobody is arguing that the attack was justified; just that the words created a situation for an idiot to be an idiot.
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And I guess this is where I disagree. The words may have been inappropriate, but they didn't create the situation. Certainly they didn't help the situation, but events were already unfolding before those words ever left the girl's mouth. My experience in life is idiots are going to be idiots. They don't need excuses.
 
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Spartacavolus said:
And you don't say a damn word to a lady about her child or tell her to go to hell. Period. If you think there is an issue that is a police matter, then you inform someone. Otherwise, you shut your damn mouth, mind your own business, and save your teef, like I said previously.

And people think it's ok to tell someone to go to hell, but oh no, please don't hit me because I verbally assaulted you?
That's part of the problem with kids nowadays. They want to be able to say or do whatever they want, without repurcussions.
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So if a kid is disturbing you or your dinner and the parent is literally doing nothing to calm him down or console him you're not going to say anything even if you're out at a restaurant and it's been going on for a half hour?
 
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