Devo182
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Which also brings to mind some friends of ours that put under their wing a stray dog they picked up in Mexico/Baja.Hate is a strong word. And for all cats.
I've been bitten by a neighborhood dog as a young child, chased by another on foot. Attacked a number of times. I guess that would give me reason to be dislike dogs, but I truly believe dogs and cats tend to be products of their owners or backgrounds (and sometimes their background precedes their owner, who can only do their best).
I've also owned family dogs that were the best of boys. So, I by no means hold such a view and love both cats and dogs.
From what I've seen of cat owners that grew to dislike cats, is they weren't very good people themselves, nor did they understand (or take the time to learn) how to treat a cat. They aren't blindly loyal to their owner. They are more humanlike. You have to earn their trust and love. It is different for folks that only know dogs.
In the end, cats and dogs are amazing creatures and companions. The "bad ones" likely had terrible experiences, or owners at some point, and even many of them can be taught to love again, but only by folks willing to put in the time.
He clearly had a bad past. Extremely defensive. It took years and tons of time with specialists for him to turn the corner. 5+ years so he could learn to trust outsiders. It was always sad to see, but his owners fully stood with him and cared for him. Just as he had really turned the corner, he had an unfortunate fall. He lost a leg. He has arthritis on top of it. They must spend thousands on him every year, but they've never given up on him and he's the sweetest dog ever now and is truly a good boy.